hollybird

just a question. but my mom got married 14 years ago to my stepdad. well my stepdads brother has 2 sons one that i have been friends with for 14 years. however we have hit it off since day one.. we visit each other in our different cities all the time and are the best of friends and more. we have slept together.. i know its kind of weird and we laugh about it all the time..is it wrong for him to want to be with me? just wanted soemones advice.thanks

hears my story. i hae been with my boyfriend which is my best friend for 2 years now. back when we first got together 2 months into our relationship my ex started calling me and wanting to try things out for good since we dated for 5 1/2 years. so did his family. so i told my boyfriend 2 months into our relationship that maybe i needed a break to sort out feelings for my ex. so i took a break and after trying my heart wasnt with my ex anymore and my boyfriend welcomed me with open arms. so we have been together for 2 years. UNTIL yesterday he said he couldnt live a lie anymore and has been upset since that 2 month? i aske dwhy he waited so long to tell me his feelings- he thought he could get by and repress it. so now he broke up with me for his "break" and wont come back to me until he ***s another girl, the way i went back to my ex. he wants to hurt me and even the score. he loves me and wants me and we still plan to move together but he says he wants to teach me a lesson and wont come back til he does even the score... what should i do???????????????

i think that what she is doing is pretty shallow. i think maybe shes turning to anyone who might give her attention. and if she knew you saw her and she continued to put her legs on him thats really hurtful and do you want to be with her anyways. what does she do when your not around. and what about your friend acting that way? ask yourself these questions. is it worth it to be jealous of her? are yall still together. i know it sucks and it hurts and it makes your squirm but you can deal with it one time or keep feeling that way again and again. seeing her for the movie tonight might be a good time for a little while then what? ---never sell yourself short to anyone.. most people are incredilbly selfish anyways.. good luck.....h.h.

what exactly happened that made him leave. that would be important info b4 anyone can begin to give you advice?

i have been dating my wonderful boyfriend of two years and he just broke up with me. previous to him i was in a 5 year relationship with someone i loved dearly. after 3 months with the new beau i told him i needed a break. i felt to many feelings for the both of them and was confused. i wanted time off to sort them out. then a month later i tried to work things out with the ex and for his family. although after a month i knew i didnt want him anymore i loved my new beau not my ex of 5 years. so just yesterday i never knew how much i hurt my boyfriend of 2 years. he never really said anything til yesterday even though this happened a year ago. so now he thinks i walked out on him and now hes going to do it to me. he swears he loves me, thinks i m beautiful, sexy intelligent, etc and he doesnt want to hurt me but feels like hell live a lie if he stays with me and he wont feel better til he gets even. is this immaturity? does he really not want to leave me but hes just being a child? i dont know what to think. we were supposed to move to hawaii next september and he says he still wants to move. but how can we if were not even together.. someone please give me your opinion........... hurting......