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Yeah, I like him. I am trying to give him hints that I am into him but there are times, when we do see each other that he seems kind of distant. However, everytime he does see me he always has to say something, a funny comment or he will mock me or just say something off the wall. I guess he is shy and is trying to figure out a way to break the ice. However he doesn't come off as being shy around the other people we hang with.

I met this guy about a year ago and just kind of saw him in passing between our mutual friends, so anyway a couple of weeks ago we are both hanging out with some friends and we were talking, well after we talked one of my friends comes over to me and tells me that this guy is into to me, but I tell her no way we were just talking. She said yeah because he is always around me and he talks real softly as well. I started to notice a litte bit more on how he is around other girls and I do see some slight differences in the way he talks to me. So I decided to check out the waters and called him over to where I was and I pointed something out and he leaned shoulder to shoulder with me, I didn't move my arm nor did he. Now there was no reason for him to be this close to me, as what we were looking at was very plain to see for both of our view points. From what I have heard this is a way for girls to see if the guy is into you, do guys do this as well? I had left the room where we were talking and he came outside to where I was and he got right in front of me and put his hands on his hips and asked what I was up to and had a small grin on his face, and then he started talking a littel bit louder to our mutual friend. Are these good signs? I have the feeling he likes me as well, but I don't get to see him so much because of schedules and stuff.

I am so confused by with his actions. I have told him that he confuses me but he just didn't say much about it. The reason I'm confused by this guy is this.....we dated for a little bit but haven't seen each other outside of work in about year. We work together so we go to company functions and things like that. We are friends, we email each other and flirt every once and awhile but nothing more. My confusion is because of the way he treats me when our coworkers are around. He doesn't talk to me hardly at all and when I do see him walk in my direction he shifts his eyes away from me. When we are at company functions he is friendly and jokes around, but only when the people I work with aren't around. He and this other girl also dated once but not anymore, but yet he will talk to her infront of our co workers. I don't understand what is his deal. Can someone please tell what is going on? He refuses to talk about the way he confuses me but yet when I start to pull away he "gets in my face" and lets me know he cares. He doesn't treat me mean or says anything bad to me ever. So what is his deal? Still have feelings for me or what? Help!! Please!!!!!!

Both of us would like to keep our relationship quiet. Yes, it could cause a lot of friction with him being my boss. Plus a few months ago, another couple lost their jobs within the region because they were intimate. If word gets out, one of the persons has to be transferred to a different region. So you fall into a long distance relationship which is very hard, so it is better to keep these things quiet.

Me and my bf work together, thats where we met. Everything has been going great, until a couple of days ago. There is this girl who is the flirt at work and she flirts with any good looking guy that she comes in contact with, including my guy. No big deal, or so I thought. Other people have his cell number(he is a manager)but not a lot of people who don't need to have it. So anyway, I knew this girl has had his number for a while but like I said no big deal, I'm(was) secure enough with us. I'm getting really jealous of this girl because of the way that she is with him. BTW, no one knows that me and him are an item(it's not really encouraged). The other day, she was talking on the phone, which I just assumed it was with him, just by the way she was talking, being really quiet and not answering or talking completely when I walked into the room. I overheard her telling this person not to text message her at work, and that she had to go because it was time to leave and she was still at work. So when she left, I did redial on the phone and it looked like it was his number, but I'm not certain because I had to hang up because she walked into the room, so I'm not sure if the last few digits were actually his. You see other people who have a cell at our work have basically the same numbers with the exception of the last couple or so. He treats me wonderfully and we were at our Christmas party over the weekend and when he greeted me, he put his hand on my back and rub it for a few seconds. He didn't do this to anyone else the entire night,not even to her. Yes they did talk but that was it. While we are at work, he does look for me if I'm not in my area when he stops by. Not so with her. We talk about things, including some of his work duties, but again she knows nothing. I just want to know does it look like I have something to worry about with her and him, or am I just be insecure and letting her get to me? She is the type of girl who loves the attention and if she doesn't get it, she will do try hard to get the attention.

Need some opinions on this one..... My FWB told me he loves me. I didn't freak out about it or anything, didn't even talk to him about how he meant it. We are really good friends outside our "arrangement", so I'm wondering does he mean it in a romantic way. I don't know if any other FWB if one of the partners says this and mean it. Any opinions or thoughts on this. Guys who are in a FWB relationship don't normally say this do they?

Me and a friend constantly flirt. Recently we have really been getting along great. We have made plans to get together but something has always come up, so we haven't. Anyway, today I was "talking" with him online and he started in with a sexual conversation, and of course I continued. Well anyway toward the end I made a comment about him being in the mood and he said yes, but hasn't done anything about it. Then he said he was going to work on it. My question is..... does he mean with me or does he mean something else? Sometimes I have a hard time understanding guys. Just wanted some guys opinions. Thanks.

yes, he is nice to everyone that he likes. He wears his emotions on his sleeves. The thing about it is, he is so caring and loving, he would go out of his way to help a friend. Maybe that is why I'm so torn on what to do.

I have 2 friends, which are a couple, they have been together for a long time. I met both of them about the same time and are really close to both of them. Well, the guy in the relationship has been saying some really mean things about his girl, my other friend. He was talking to some other friends of ours and he was talking about relationships in general and then he starts to mention how his girl is a snake and how no matter how much you have sex, it won't bring about love. There have been other times that he has disrespected her, to her face and behind her back. Like when he is talking on the phone to her, he will make hand signals like she is talking too much and she won't shut up. He has made her push a golf cart when it stopped working instead of him getting out and doing so. I feel like she has no respect for herself and feels like she can't make it without him because she has been with him for so long. I have talked to him about the way he treats her and the things he says about her, but then he tells me that she is important to him. I don't understand how he can treat her so bad but he treats me and our other friends with so much respect. I care for them both, and I don't want to see either one of them hurt but I don't like the way he treats her. Should I tell her what he does and says when she is not around or should I just stay out of it? I feel like I wouldn't be much of a friend to her if I kept quiet. I don't want him upset with me if I talk to her and tell her to be strong. My overall opinion is that he doesn't love her he just feels comfortable with her and he has made a commitment to her but to me that is cheating her out of true happiness. Just need help on what to do?

I don't think he is going through anything in his life that would make him act this way over the remark. Some of our other friends have talken to him but still nothing with me. Some of my other guy friends have said that guys act like this when they get embarrassed in front of a girl they like. They said that the reason they get "cold" is because they don't want the object of their affection to get the wrong idea, so they take a step back and let things calm down. The reason that he is still talking with the other girl(s) in the group is because he has no deep true feelings about them, just looks at them as a friend. Unlike with me, he has more than just friends feelings, at least that is what my other guy friends say. Are they right or wrong? What should I do to try to get over this "silent" treatment?

the thing that I sent to my friends was things to keep from getting bored in class or if you had a job. The thing he sent back was not embarrassing or anything like that, bu what our friend sent back a sexual comment, and it was pretty funny. The friend (in question) has made comments similar to what was said, yeah even about him and his girl. As far as how he acts around me, I have seen him look at me and then he will turn away sometimes. He always tells me what a nice person I am. One time, I went out of town with some of my other friends and when I got back, one of our friends said that he was really happy to see, she said the look on his face(glad) was just for me, and I brought something back for him and he showed it to everyone. If I don't email him for a while and then when I do, he replies fast, unlike with our other friends(it was until now anyway) I hope that this will help and this gives enough info. Thanx

I am new to this site, so forgive me if my post is long. I need some help about this guy that I like. I think that he has feelings for me but am not sure. We talk alot and email along with some other of our friends, well I sent something to some of my friends via email and he responded to all and said something innocent, well another one of our friends said something about him and his girl. I think that it embarrassed him but not for sure, well anyway up until then everything was ok between us, but now he hardly returns any of my emails, but he will return our other friends. What does this mean, if any thing? Did he get uncomfortable with me 'cause he has feelings for me as well. I just don't understand why he would get "cold" toward me but not the others. Plz give advice.