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You need to realize that you hurt her. I know that sucks, but ya f'd up. If you want to be with her this is what you need to do...but before you do this you need to be sure you REALLY want to be with her and its not that you just don't like losing casue if thats the case you are gonna waste a lot of your time: first you need to get up on out of her grill and give her some space (this means no 'i love you's' or poems or anything). Second, and most improtantly, be her friend. Start slowly, be her friend, hang out with her, eventually it will become crystal clear wether you have a shot at getting her back or not.

NO! DO NOT ASK HER OUT! Unless, of course, you want to hear 'no' for a third time. If you really like her, be her friend. DO NOT ASK HER OUT ON A DATE. If you are still interested, you need to just hang out with her, with no pretense that you are 'going out'. Make no 'move'. Ask to go out with you and your friends to a movie or ask her if you she would help you pick out a present for your mother or a girlfriend or something and have no idea what to get them. Just spend time with her as a friend not a girlfriend. If she likes you, trust me, it will be very obvious.

Write: [her name], a beautiful flower for a beautiful girl (or woman or whatever) [your name]

No. It is NOT okay to have someone else ask her out for you. Ask her out. She will be impressed if you do it and wonder if she is still in sixth grade if you get your friend to do it. Now you dont want her to think you're still in sixth grade do you?

I feel your pain, I've been on both sides of that equation...it's a tough situation, but unfortunately if your boyfriend needs space he needs space. If you love him, give him his space, you should trust him. If you plan on being together forever and have kids with him you NEED to trust him. If you don't trust him then YOU need space to figure out why (and if it turns out that you don't trust him run...don't walk away). Give him some credit, he is being totally honest with you. He told you about coffee his ex-girlfrined because he wants to be honest with you (just imagine if you had heard from someone else that he met with ex).