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I finally show my face again. God it has been long since I started with the affair, and I must say alot has gone on in here also. I am still with my married man for all of you who want to know. Things are working out wonderfully. I am not with him based on his relationship with his wife, we don't discuss her anymore. We did break it off for a while, but during that time I recooperated. I have other men in my life now and I love it that way. It helps me keep my mind off of him when he is not around. My feelings for him will always be special. I really do believe I love him. I also believe his reasons for staying with his wife. Which to all you negative people are very logical. He has three little children, he is scared his wife will play games with them and he doesn't want to lose part of his law degree to her. I would stay too if you really think about it, wouldn't you. He also tells me when he does have sex with his wife, that he is honest about. Besides the thought of him having sex with her and then coming to me makes me feel like I can satisfy him better than she can. It kinda turns me on. If all of these married guys wives were properly doing their jobs, they wouldn't be out looking for younger, more fun and more willing in the first place. It isn't that hard to put out every night and some people choose not to. We all have our needs. If you don't take care of your man, he WILL cheat on you. I would expect my husband to also. SORRY but that is the plain truth. You know even if he did leave her, I want all of you to know that I wouldn't want him for myself. He is a liar. Not only is he married and cheating, but he is a lawyer too. That's a double whammie! If you ask me I couldn't even tell you why I keep him around anymore. There are other married men in my life now. HAHAHA You know what guys? Everyone has their preferences. Some of you choose to date single men, some black, some white, some men who are sepreated, and some of us just like men that are married. Personally I get treated better by married men. I love the attention I get. That alone will never compare to the attention I get from a single guy. Any questions, comments please feel free. I'd love to hear the reply I get to this one. And to all you girls who are with married men; you keep doing what you're doing. There really is NOTHING wrong with it. All the tears and sleepless nights eventualy pay off. We are not stupid, we knew what we were getting into from the start. It's not life or death. I can completely associate with you guys! Take advantage of the situation you are in, you'll never have it better. And look at it this way: When we do get married we can write a book on how to keep a husband because of all the complainging we sit and listen to. LOL

Very sorry, but I can't and I won't break up with him. I don't have to imagine him being my husband because I'm not married and he's not mine. I want to be with him and that's my choice to make. I have a different outlook on marriage anyway. He and I are very happy to gether and like I said before, if she was doing her job he wouldn't be out looking for something he should be getting at home. We haven't broken up yet and it isn't happening anytime soon either. I know for a fact that there are no others and if and when the time comes that this relationship is bad, then I will be gone. The fact of the matter is that I love him and I wouldn't put myself through that sort of pain. And I am with another man and he knew about my affair from the start. Technically it's none of his business! When I am married to someone then they can tell me what it is and isn't okay to do. I will always have him around, whether it has to be kept a secret or out in the open!!!!

It's called a Queave or something. It usually happens when you are doing it doggy style. LOL It is funny, but it happens to everyone!

I think you should ask him out to lunch. At least that way you can get to talking and if it works out well, then he'll surely ask you out for another lunch date and you will know where he stands. He may already sense that you like him and that's where all the touchy feely stuff comes in..................... Good luck!

If he hasn't cheated on you yet, he will if you keep up with the nonsense. If he is going along with all the stuff you ask of him, he must really love you. Take advantage of it and accept the fact that he's done nothing wrong. TRUST HIM! Alot of us would die to have someone love us like that. You should seriously seek some counseling!

You know what the funny thing is, I would much rather be with him than see anyone else! I know there is no happy ending to our relationship and I have completely grown to accept that. I am happy when I'm with him and that's all that counts. Missing him is probably the worst part and that is where all of our arguments stem from. He is a good guy, he's just attached to someone else. LOL Why should I give up the best relationship of my life? He's married to someone he is miserable with and I know I can make him happier than she does. Maybe he stays for the kids and I am slowly understanding that, but if she was doing her job he wouldn't be looking elsewhere for love and affection. I do believe I love him and there are many positive things that back up that love, but no one will ever understand. Well, except for people like you who are in the same situation. Thanks for the insight, it always helps!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some things never change! I'm still seeing him. We broke up and he ended up leaving me a message for christmas and I went running back. I know you all are going to be against it, but the odds were against me. I'm too single and too available. At 25 I must say I'm horny as hell every day and although I could probably get it anywhere, I choose to get it from him. Alot has happened since the last time I posted. Before I wouldn't dare see anyone else while I was with him, but this time around I chose differently! I am dating now and the attention I give him is no where near as much as it was in the beginning. In a sense, the show is now on the other foot. I can't lie and say my feelings for him aren't there because they always will be. But now I know my boundaries! Now I know that I would never want a man like him as a husband even if given that chance. It's only a sexual relationship and I'm completely happy with that! There's something about being with a married man that has always appealed to me. I really don't know what it is! It's the attention that I need and the attention that I get out of it.

His problems have grown to concern me more than my own! I know I love him and all I want is to see him happy!

His wife deserves what she gets for what she puts him through. Would you like to buy a bed for yourself and then end up sleeping on the floor for 7 months. I think not! He deserves better! There are alot of other issues involved here.

About 5 months ago I met this attorney on line and decided to meet him for dinner and drinks. At first sight of each other it just seemed so right! The attraction was there from our first hello and we both seemed amazed at how well we clicked. Well needless to say, that first night we made love and it was the most passionate, erotic, sensual, awesome experience of both of our lives. Now 5 months have gone by and it hasn't changed. The relationship is perfect. He shows me affection, spends time with me, we laugh together, we like the same things. It is so obvious that we are both in great need of affection, attention and companionship. It isn't just about sex! At this point I wouldn't know how to walk away from him if someone hit me in the face with a brick. I love him! The strange part is that it really isn't just about sex. He'll call me some nights and say, "let's go do something different together, we don't always have to have sex". About 2 months ago he mentioned us getting an apartment together and I got very upset. I asked him never to mention that to me again because it isn't fair to get my hopes up that way. He is so charming and beautiful and romantic and I'm screwed. I know that the right thing to do is walk away, but this is undoubtedly the best relationship I've ever been in. He has grown on me and although I don't believe he'll ever leave his wife or family, I would hate to be without him. I don't even have the heart to date other guys! I know it upsets him even though he doesn't say so, but I can't do it to him. The nights are probably the worst, when I am sitting at home alone crying my eyes out and he gets to go home to a big house, with a big loving family waiting for him every night. I live alone, I am alone and I'm really starting to resent him for that. Does anyone have some advice for me? I've never been so confused before in my life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!