lizzieluvsdavid

I am also sorry for your loss. My younger sister was killed almost a week ago when her sportbike collided with a truck that ran a red light. My boyfriend (now ex) was the paramedic on the call and he did everything he could to save her. He called me immediately and I met them at the hospital. I held her hand as a single tear rolled down her cheek and she looked at me and I will never forget what she said. She said, "Tell Anthony that I love him with all of my heart and I will meet him on the other side. Tell him that I will be watching over him and we will be together again....he is my soulmate. The only pain that I feel is in my heart in knowing that we can't be together. I love you and tell mom and dad that I love them too. We will all meet again...I will be waiting." She closed her eyes and her heart stopped beating, while she was still holding my hand. Her lungs had collapsed and it was too much for her heart. I know this HOLLOW empty feeling that you described for it is all that I feel now. She was my best friend and not a second goes by that I don't think about her. Everything reminds me of her. Nothing comforts me and I am filled with so many questions that I will never have the answer to. You will be in my prayers.

No one is perfect....BUT there are people that are perfect for each other. I believe in soulmates. I believe everything happens for a reason. I broke up with my live in boyfriend of 8 months because I was not "in-love" with him. I do love him and we have fun together but I just can never see myself falling "in love" with him. He doesn't give me that butterfly feeling....it's more like we are best friends. We never fight, we live together and things are great....but I need that feeling. He never talks about his feelings and in the beginning of our relationship neither one of us wanted to fall in love because of our past relationships. I thought he still felt the same way. He never told me he loved me or that he was in love with me...which I didn't need to hear if I felt it....but I don't and it's not fair to him. So, after telling him how I felt...his reaction was that he IS in love with me and he guarded his feelings because of his past relationships. It was really hard, knowing that I was hurting him but I just can't stay knowing that my soulmate is out there somewhere...that person that is perfect for me. I feel horrible but I had to be honest. Is it wrong to throw something good away because you don't have the butterfly feeling?

I was beginning to doubt that everyone has a soulmate until my little sister found hers. She said there was an instant connection like they had known each other forever. They fell deeply in love with each other and they were each other's everything. I had never seen my sister SO happy. She would try to describe the feeling that he gave her...she said it was like a nervous, anxious, excited butterfly feeling and she would swear that her heart would skip a beat when she'd talk to him. I personally have not met my soulmate but my sister gives me hope even after what has happened to her. She was killed 3 days ago on her street bike and her and her soulmate never had the chance to be together. We are all devastated, especially him. He believes that they will be together again either in this life or the next and he keeps praying that he will be with his baby again. I am heartbroken at the loss of my sister and at the situation. Sorry to make this about me...I'll shutup now. My point is, I do still believe in soulmates because I have seen it...and it was beautiful.

I just have so many questions and no answers. Why did this happen to her? Why now? Why before she had her own family? Why before she could have babies? Why before she could meet him in person and start a life with him? Why was she taken from us and so young? What am I going to do without her? What is he going to do without her? How do I live with this? How does he? If everything happens for a reason then what is it? Why would fate bring these two beautiful people together and then take her away? I don't get it. Someone please explain it to me. He is having panic attacks and has been in the hospital and he doesn't know what to do and I don't know how to help him. I know that there probably are no answers to my questions but any help is greatly appreciated. Sincerely, Liz

Thank you all for your support. I just talked to him not long ago. He is angry. He says that her death is against everything that he believed in and he has no more faith. He says that their meeting was fate but why if she was only going to be taken away. He always believed that everything happens for a reason but why...why would this happen, what is the reason? I must admit that I feel the same way but I still have my faith.

My baby sister loved riding motorcycles and was killed while riding hers 3 days ago. She was my best friend and I'm still in shock. To add to this, she had found her soulmate a couple months ago. He is a marine over in Iraq serving our country. She met him on myspace and they had an instant connection and they fell in love, deeply in love. They called it movie-love. She was so happy. She would just zone out and smile thinking about him. They were soulmates. She used to try and describe this feeling that she had that she said she couldn't really explain...just this unbelieveable butterfly feeling, mixed in with nervous, anxious and an excited feeling constantly. He called her every chance that he got and they'd often talk hours and hours everyday. Even though they had never met they didn't care, the connection between them was so strong and they were so much in love. My sister said he was her everything and all that she ever thought and dreamed about and he said the same. They were perfect for each other. They said it was fate that brought them together and they believed that everything happens for a reason. Now it is hard to believe that because she was taken away before they could meet. When she first told me about this guy I was really weary because it was the internet but when I heard them talking to each other on the phone, I knew. I do not doubt that they were soulmates. I was the one that had to tell him about her death and it was the hardest thing that I have ever had to do. Still trying to cope with her loss myself, I have been trying to help him as well. He has no one over there and he says he has no reason to continue life. Her last thoughts were of him. I was with her, she held my hand and made me promise to tell him that she loved him and that she would be waiting for him on the other side and that she wanted him to keep all the promises he made her and live a long and happy life. I have to watch over him for her but I don't know how to help him. He has been in Iraq for 7 months and is scheduled to leave there in 3 weeks. She was going to meet him when he got back and they were going to start their lives together. His dad died when he was 5 and he always said that his dad is an angel watching over them. Now he says, daddy how could you let this happen, how could you take her from me. What can I do to help him? I am having a really hard time with this myself but I have my family and he has nothing. I need to help him. Someone please help me help him.