My baby sister loved riding motorcycles and was killed while riding hers 3 days ago. She was my best friend and I'm still in shock. To add to this, she had found her soulmate a couple months ago. He is a marine over in Iraq serving our country. She met him on myspace and they had an instant connection and they fell in love, deeply in love. They called it movie-love. She was so happy. She would just zone out and smile thinking about him. They were soulmates. She used to try and describe this feeling that she had that she said she couldn't really explain...just this unbelieveable butterfly feeling, mixed in with nervous, anxious and an excited feeling constantly. He called her every chance that he got and they'd often talk hours and hours everyday. Even though they had never met they didn't care, the connection between them was so strong and they were so much in love. My sister said he was her everything and all that she ever thought and dreamed about and he said the same. They were perfect for each other. They said it was fate that brought them together and they believed that everything happens for a reason. Now it is hard to believe that because she was taken away before they could meet. When she first told me about this guy I was really weary because it was the internet but when I heard them talking to each other on the phone, I knew. I do not doubt that they were soulmates. I was the one that had to tell him about her death and it was the hardest thing that I have ever had to do.
Still trying to cope with her loss myself, I have been trying to help him as well. He has no one over there and he says he has no reason to continue life. Her last thoughts were of him. I was with her, she held my hand and made me promise to tell him that she loved him and that she would be waiting for him on the other side and that she wanted him to keep all the promises he made her and live a long and happy life. I have to watch over him for her but I don't know how to help him. He has been in Iraq for 7 months and is scheduled to leave there in 3 weeks. She was going to meet him when he got back and they were going to start their lives together. His dad died when he was 5 and he always said that his dad is an angel watching over them. Now he says, daddy how could you let this happen, how could you take her from me. What can I do to help him? I am having a really hard time with this myself but I have my family and he has nothing. I need to help him. Someone please help me help him.