Lil-un

Hahaha sounds like something I would do! Poor girl... I bet she is really embarresed... If it has really put you off then so be. But you shouldent hold it against her/ tell all your mates etc.... I bet she feels really bad. Just put it behing you.... you can always clean a car mayte, but its a bit harder to clear your conscience

Dont get all scared of splitting with your partner.... If you dont feel right, u cant be in a relationship with them. Just tell her that you cant be together bacause you think you will be better apart, or you want to move on, or some other excuse. You cant really describe how you feel you just know its right. Also when you are split up it may take a while for a friendship to develop... things might get a bit bitter. Spesh if you keep going back to them. I went back to my bloke after I split with him because he was blackmailing me with "I really miss you" and "I think you are so special". Stupidly I got back with him. THings where good for 3 days. then returned tothe way it was.... the next time I dumped him I simply told him to bugger off (long story) In the end a short sweet ending is always better than dragging it on for ages... Think about it carefully...if you want to finish with her do so.... and try not to feel bad about it safe!

For crying out loud! wat do u do when a guy is making you go crazy! He just makes me want to run into a brick wall!!!!!!!! wHY iS hE sO gOD dAMNED sexy!!!!!!! *ahem* Let me explain myself.... I met one of my brothers friends in new year (yes I have fancied him for a very long time) and he is absolutly amazing, I havent been able to get my mind off of him since. And everytime I do, he swagers up to me with that little grin hugs me, calls me his little princess, tells me that one day him and my brother will be brother in law etc etc, making me fall for him for anouther couple of months. Ive been trying to get my mind off him for ages, but I cant.... ive even had other relationships... but my boyfriends have never been anything like him (although nice blokes) Because of my 2 brothers ive always been quite cold about my emotions... not really revealing how I feel because I think people wiill laugh at me. This is quite hard because I just cant figure out how to ask this guy if he would like to meet up outside our social circle.... and I couldent handle the rejection if he said no. Also alot of people have been asking me out recently since ive just come out of a relationship.... however they may be all great blokes but I cant.... and I cant tell them why... but the simple fact is that im absolutly crazy about this other bloke! I dont even want a relationship.... my last one dragged me down mentaly and all I want is to get my party spirits back and have a brilliant time. I feel kind of .... odd.... that ive had this crush for so long..... is that normal? Im not "oooo this is love!" kinda person... im pretty sure its just lust.... but oh well! Dont really think I wanted much advic about this I just need to get it off my chest.... Is this bloke just being a tease? How do I deal with someone like that.... It doesnt make things better that I did sleep with him the other day. Its kinda getting me down really... he has the gift of the gab, and I really dont know what he really wants. I just hope that because of his friendship with my brother he's not going to play me like a fool.... but I cant help being a fool with him Hes just so damn sexy I think I need help lol bugger

When I was 16 I had my first boyfriend that I was physical with, well I wasent really ready for it but he forced it onto me, even though I said no. A day after he dumped me. I put it behind me cos I was stupid and prob a bit to drunk anyway. He used to do alot of strange things to me like hold me to the floor (not doing anything) for 45 mins and embarrasing me in front of friends (i.e when I went to hug him he pushed me away) Anyway after this relationship ended I went off the walls a bit an was put in councelling (I did have alot of other problems to) Im 18 now and my life has gotten better. Im at uni, I have alot of friends etc. Theres only one thing I think I have a very deep scar about. Im terrifyed of commitment and even more of sex. Recently I have had alot of wonderful people approach me and all I can do is say no and distance myself. Even worse I met a person I really really liked, not only that I fancied the * * * off him (come on im a teenager!) However when we where getting together thing got a bit heated. Im totally up for him even if it doesnt mean a relationship I just fancy him, but anyway..... I had a * * * *ing panic attack. Thats not the first time its happened either. everyone I know is holding down relationships and going on dates, but not me.... i really cant understand it, blokes stop me in the street for my number so it cant be im unattractive. I just think I have a massive stigma against blokes growing inside of me. The problem is not just with relationships though. If any of my mates joke about sex, i get really deeply offended and sometimes extremly uncomfortable. I have had some really bad experiences with blokes, I bet every girl does, I really want to start having relationships, but there a massive wall that blocks me.... just wondering if after explaining myself what im feeling is unnatural... and if I can do anything about it