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i think is great that your thinking like that... it means your a real person..and i love talking to people like you.. go to uni study Philosophy or psychology (or just read some books) , it will open you mind up and give you a great perspective on things.

Ok.. I have now accepted that I love girls..and I'm ready to tell my boyfriend and my friends..its gonna be so hard for me cause they have no idea, especially my bf… Ok my question is..what should I say? I'm taking my friend out for some drinks and im planning to tell her then… does anyone have any advice as to how I start off the conversation? Or what I should say? Thanks lots all of you

I’m just posting into this forum to say, that I never knew there were some many beautiful people in this world that are so happy to give a helping hand to people who are in need…it's so amazing.. I’m 22 now but when I was younger when I was in my teens I was a second away from killing myself when my friend rang me on my phone and ask if I wanted to go out for some drinks… she saved my life and I’m forever grateful. But the reason those years ago I wanted to kill my self was because I thought that there were no people in this world that had a heart, that cared about people on a deeper level..you know someone that will go out of their way to help, even if they didn’t know a thing about them. I LOVE THAT IN PEOPLE!!! And this site is great!!! That’s all I have to say…. thanks to all those people that take the time to care for all these people that pour their heart out…it's a real gift to have a heart like you all do..: )

hi, i think everyone is diffrent...but from my point of view i like it to be shaven...but if u dont like it shaven then definitely shorten, just so its not a big ugly mess, if you know what i mean.. girls like guys to be clean too! : )

im way to scared to tell him..he would freak out..and i dont want to hurt him...i know im hurting him by doing this, but im tryna find out who i am.I dont plan to be with girls anymore while i am with him. my conscience has caught up with me now..so much that i cant sleep at night. i never thought it would be this hard to decide which sex to be with.my thoughts are consuming my life..has it been this hard for anyone?

thats lots that helped

I'm really confused and I need some help plez im a 22 year old women, and I'm unsure of my sexuality… I have always been with boys, but since about 13 I have had feelings for girls..at the moment I'm in a relationship with a guy, which I have been in for over 3 years..the only thing is since I've been with him I've been cheating on him with girls..i justify this to my self by saying "I'm just tryna find out if I'm bi, gay or straight" I've been with 5 girls over our relationship ..And still I am not sure. I went out with a girl clubbing not long ago and she asked if I would be her girlfriend and it completely freaked me out..Some days I think I really want to be in a relationship with a girl and other times I think "no I'm straight" and wanna be with guys, and I think that I only like girls because I think they look beautiful…Maybe I'm just shallow?? Has anyone been through something similar? I just don't know whether to stay with this guy and never be with a girl again or whether I should break up with him and try being with a girl in a relationship. Its also hard for me because I'm a model and everyone expects that I love guys and just laugh if I ever say I'm interested in girls… sorry about the long message. But this is the first time I've gotten this off my cheast..thanks for reading: ) and thanks for any help in advance : )