RyanB18

Wow you guys, I really appreciate it all every one of you guys who has left me something to cheer me up. You have no idea how good it feels to know that there are people out there as kind and caring as the people on this site, thanks again so much im trying really hard to stay strong...

Ive lost the best thing I ever had in my life. She said her excuse was that she just didnt "feel it" anymore... I am completely miserable now and she is perfectly fine again... I just want to be able to get over her and move on since she has already forgotton about me. Its just insane how you can love someone for 11 months with all your heart then one day they break up with you...Im so depressed... -Ryan

Hi everyone...Yesterday was just as any other day was I would text my girlfriend and she was telling me about her day. Well she told me she would call after she got out of this movie, and i said that would be great. Then I waited...and waited...About an hour after the movie should have gotten out i text her and she tells me shes at her friends house and had fogotton. I believed it and said it was allright and if she would like to maybe do something tonight, and she could bring her friend. In her last text to me she just told me that she was hanging out with her friend,sorry. Then everything stopped...Not ONE text, or ONE call all night! I called and it would go to her voicemail...It hurts so bad that shes doing this to me...Should I be suspicious??? I have so much on my mind, thanks for listening. -Ryan

Hello everyone I need a good vent again...Well Its been about a year with my girlfriend and its been the best year of my life with her. Well when we first started dating everything was cool and I rarely got jealous. Well as of late Ive been getting worst and worst it feels. It all basically started cuz of the website MYSPACE. I didnt really like how she put all of her pictures on there and then about a week ago I read that she had posted this thing that said "If you had me locked in a room for a whole day and we could do whatever you wanted with me what would you do?" At first I was kidna mad cuz It just sounded bad to me then I read some of the responses she had gotten. Most of them were from guys who were saying that they would do her and stuff. And then I also saw the she was saying things back like "ooo really" "Wink" and stuff. Well I got pretty mad and I told her that If she wanted to keep dating me she would have to get rid of MYSPACE. I said this because it kept causing me so much stress with the comments she left on there. Well she got rid of it and now her and all of her friends think im the worst guy ever. She constantly now tells me that I was wrong for telling her to get rid of MYSPACE and that Im controlling. I know it was probly really bad for what I did but I just feel that I was tired of this stress on our relationship from MYSPACE (even if it all was caused in my own head.) Did I do the right thing? Am I a terrible boyfriend? I feel as if my actions are going to cause me to lose the best thing in my life... Sorry for this being so long it just feels so good! Also lately ive been worried when she gets online that she is flirting with other guys. i donno i think ive officially lost my mind if theres any tips you guys might be able to share on how to not be so jealous it would be greatly appreciated! THANKS SO MUCH FOR LISTENING -Ryan

Hey thanks for the comments they really do make me feel better. Its good to know that maybe everything is just because I dont have a good self-esteem. I will definitly try the things that you guys suggested, and once again thank you for the advice.

Hello all I have posted on this site earlier about my trust issues with my girlfriend and I know what everyone is gonna say on this site, "your overprotective" or "controlling" but I dont feel as if Im controlling her at all. Anyhoo onto my recent outburst of paranoya. My girlfriend just got a job at this restaraunt and I got really paranoid after her friend told me that all the guys there are super cool and good looking and what not. I have an extremely low self esteem and honestly have no idea how I got such a beautiful girlfriend so I see myself losing her to one of these "cool, good looking guys." I know Im paranoid and I know this isnt good for relationships, but I cant help it but feeling like im gonna lose her... Well thanks for letting me vent a little it always feels good.

I also am in the same boat with you but with my girlfriend, I constantly am jealous. I will get online as soon as possible just to look at her xanga, or myspace to see if she got any comments from guys, or if she commented on any guys. I wish I could conquer my jealousy so badly.

Hello, First of all I am a male and im 18 years old... I have been reading a lot of the jealousy topics on this site but most of them were from women. I am a male with a jealousy problem that I really want to conquer, or at least calm. I have been dating my girlfriend who is a year younger than me for 9 months now. We have been friends from school for about 2 years and we have a great relationship... Well until everytime I get Jealous that is... In my past relationships I have been cheated on in almost every single one of them. This has made me very hard to trust women who I date. My girlfriend hasnt done anything to me that would make me think she is a cheater but I still find myself jealous. She went up north during the summer with some of her friends and when they came back her friend told me that her and this guy were cute together and that my girlfriend seemed very sad when she had to leave. I then got super pissed is that normal!? I mean she said she didnt do anything but still... Ahh this is long but it feels sooo good to finally vent this out. Today she gave me the password to her myspace so i could delete this silly pic of me she had on there... wellll after that i decided to snoop through her emails she had on there.. i know bad. This friend of hers shes had since like 6th grade had sent her a lot of emails wanting to hang out and my girlfriend said in one of them that she wished she could on one occasion but Ryan, ME would have flipped out if she woulda bailed on me. This made me feel even worst.... So I called her and we have talked about this before but today she said something that really opened my eyes. She said that If my jealousy got out of control that she would possibly have to break up with me... So I asked her what she thought was "out of control" and she said that If I got mad cuz she hung out just with a guy at his house or somethin and I got mad that was "out of control..." Uh Oh cuz I dont like when she does that, to me that is suspicious.... IS THAT NORMAL? Well ive basically written a book, I feel like crap.... I wish I wasnt so jealous...