Donknowhatodo

The way you put it makes him seem like a really nice guy who treated you well. Go for it...im a guy and i would be flattered if i knew i made that big of an impression on someones life.... Good Luck with everything

We just met up, and I just played it cool without mentioning anything. Then eventually she was the one who came to me about telling me her feelings. (that took about a week or two after we met the first time) And since i didnt push her to say it by talking about the past it meant more to me having her approach me about it.

congrats passionate hope you are able to keep it up... sorry about not keeping up with my own topic ahah

Hi I'm just curious on everyone's opinion on dating a person who smokes. I dated someone for 2 months who must of smoked between 1-2 packs a day, and had such a horrible cough i wouldnt kiss her on some days. P.S. Got back togethor with Ex

Hey man, I had the same problem with my girl, and actually felt the same thing of thinking about her having sex with other guys. What helped me get through everything is doing stuff I have never tried before and that would actually help me in long run. Sorry if i cant be much more help but it does eventually get better.

I agree with this.....just follow whats in your heart

wow what a few hours make she cancelled and now im beyond mad and not sure what to do when it comes to her......think now its time to move on...any suggestions on how to do that?

not sure if whether there are male or females responding but thank you for taking the time to respond..... anyways i would really appreciate it to get a female prespective on the issue, and if i already have one im sorry.

Makes sense just not sure if im strong enough.... And i actually am scared to lose contact with her.... just for the simple face i believe she still loves me and is just mad at me for the moment.

I believe at this point right now i rather have her in my life in some way than not have her in any way. But then again im confused and hurt on this whole situation.....

Actually we broke up for a pretty stupid reason, and the sad part about it is that its my fault. But i have spent almost a month trying to make it up to her, but all i got was the cold shoulder Honestly to make myself better i have joined a gym, and am just trying to keep myself busy. And to be honest nothing has worked i dont know why but everyday i miss her more and more. Thats where im confused... i give myself this hope that she wants to get back togethor or be friends. why else would she meet me?

In my other post explained how me and my g/f were togethor for 3 years and broke up 2 months ago. Well i called her the other day and she actually agreed to meet up with me. I just dont know what to feel in this situation. I know i still love her, and she says she doesnt love me anymore. I guess im scared to meet her cause i dont know the reason on why she is willing to meet me all of a sudden.

oh sorry ill try and detail it better. I do want her back as my g/f i couldn't deal with the "table scraps". And by apologizing i mean showing her i am sorry without pushing her away and without giving myself false hope. I know im walking on the thinnest ice right now but the situation is alot better than what it was a month ago.

Recap of relationship: We're togethor for 3 years and decided on Nov 1st to break up after a big fight. Anyway we set some guidelines like remaining friends and being there for each other, but i didnt keep my end of the bargain and never returned calls. The way i dealt with the pain was by engulfing myself in school, and i tried to explain this to her but she didn't understand that i was really hurt by this. So in the end she told me to F off and never speak to her again. (i dont blame her for this) Well im trying to make amends for this now, and im going extremely slow to re-earn her trust, but im so lost on what to do. We have spoken over the phone and on AIM and each time we do she warms up to me and forgives me more and more \\ But today i got the courage to ask some heart wrenching questions, 1) does she still love me? and 2) Is she seeing someone. For the love question she said she isnt sure, but she feels that what i did to her has blinded her love for me, and that she probably does still love me. For the second she said she is kind of seeing someone but they dont consider each other b/f or g/f. I DONT GET THIS!!! I offered to drop out of the picture but she said she wants me to talk and that she wont allow him to dictate who she talks to. Im just lost right now i know what i did was wrong and that i may have lost someone that i wanted to marry but at the same time when i speak to her i feel hope only to be met with resistance. How do i show someone im sorry for what i did, and at the same time not fill myself with hope for my g/f to be back in my life.