Halle Berry23
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I'm taking a firm stand. It ends today. I'm aware that the journey to soberity will be a hard one but I'm quite adamant about it. I have to prioritize my health and myself. I don't want to have to live with feelings of guilt and shame. Thank you.
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I met him at my friends birthday party. Yes, we did use protection. Thank you. I've joined an app called "I am sober" and I'm very adamant about my decision to quit alcohol for good. I'm putting my health first. I know it won't be easy but it's the road I'm taking.
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30 (F). I've been celibate for 14 months. Everytime when I have a drink I get so horny to a point that I would sleep with the next good looking stranger. I feel terrible and this isn't healthy and safe, I'm aware. Yesterday I got intoxicated and I slept with a man I had just met. I feel terrible. I think the best thing for me would be to quit alcohol at this point before I catch a disease.
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That's true. We never have time on our hands and we will always put our children first before anything and if that means being single till my son is out for college then so be it. I dated two single dads but sadly that never worked out because they were still stuck on the mother of the child. Dating is hard, celibacy is hard but I'm hopeful that one day I will find someone who is for me.
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His mom is in fact a single mother, although he had a step dad, they didn't get along but I understand everyone has their own preferences. It's quite beautiful for someone to notice even from the shadows (He hasn't met my child hence "shadows") that you're doing an amazing job with your child, he does compliment me on my parenting and how I'm doing well for myself but I guess that's just where it ends. The father of my child is present, we've decided to put past feelings aside and focus on raising a happy child. So I do get time to myself now and again. I go for jogs, I love hosting friends and family and I'm an avid reader lol. It's true, we all get lonely and long for someone to just talk to after a long day. I'm hopeful that some day, I will find my best friend. Thank you for the beautiful words.
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The father of my child and I were together for 6 years. For the first 4 years everything was beautiful, like any other couple we had our highs and lows. The last two years he became a different person, I understand that with time people change and you have to grow with them and embrace the changes but he began to distance himself, he cheated on me twice during the last two years of our relationship. As much as it hurt, I still loved him and I wanted our family. I didn't want my child to grow up in two different homes. The 6th year, we didn't even have sex, our communication was off, and that's when I broke it off because as much as I longed for a stable and happy home for my child, I was not happy. So to answer your question, no I'm not holding on to my last relationship because there's nothing there for me, I've moved on. I've found myself again and I'm happy and I would love to share my happiness with someone else.
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I'm a 30 year old single mother. I've been single for 16 months now. I miss being in a relationship, it gets so lonely. I yearn to be loved and caressed but I can't seem to meet a man willing to commit to me because I'm a mother. It hurts how men look past me because I'm a mum, all they want is to have sex with me but not commit. I met a man last December and we really hit it off from the get go, he tells me he likes me but won't commit. The sex is mind blowing and even though I know it's not going anywhere I can't help but go back because of sex.
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His having reservation, please advice
Halle Berry23 replied to Halle Berry23's topic in Relationship Advice
I do respect his feelings and I empathize. It's quite confusing when he tells me how much he likes me and wants to make me his girl. -
His having reservation, please advice
Halle Berry23 replied to Halle Berry23's topic in Relationship Advice
At first I agreed to it but now I would like to be in a committed relationship. I appreciate that, thank you! -
His having reservation, please advice
Halle Berry23 replied to Halle Berry23's topic in Relationship Advice
Hey, just to add on to my post. I'm 30 and his 31. I've known him for 7 years, we spoke and called but never got in a relationship because he had to move oversees and we agreed it wouldn't work out. We shortly both got into relationships and I fell pregnant with my child. He never stopped pursing me even when he found out that I have a child. Fast forward, we met last year and decided to have sex. And we started chatting again, more often. even went on dates but we never put a title to our relationship, I guess you could say we were savoring the moment. He randomly sends me flowers with sweet little notes. He emphasize how "he doesn't just date, he wants to be fully into something and everything that comes with it" I understand his doubts, I empathize with him and I appreciate him letting me know. To conclude, He expresses how he likes me and wants me. At some point he told me that I'm his type and he can't wait to make his girl. So that's why I'm so confused, because it's only been 5 months. -
His having reservation, please advice
Halle Berry23 replied to Halle Berry23's topic in Relationship Advice
I'm 30 and his 31. That's the thing, he was pursuing me knowing that I have a child. Everything is still so new and initially when we met it was a casual thing which transitioned to us going on dates, holding hands, him randomly sending me flowers with beautiful notes. Telling me he can't wait to make me his girl. Now if you think about, I feel like I was also being lead on only for him to later tell me he has reservations. And I absolutely understand, committing to a single parent can be a lot because my child will forever come first. -
His having reservation, please advice
Halle Berry23 replied to Halle Berry23's topic in Relationship Advice
I've known him for about 6 years and he was pursuing him. We later talked and agreed a relationship wouldn't work because he had to move oversees (this was 6 years go). We both got into relationships and I later fell pregnant and he knew about my pregnancy but that didn't stop him from still pursuing me. Last year I decided to give him a chance, we didn't agree to a relationship. We've always liked each other, the chemistry is there... but I feel like his half in and half out at times His 31 and I'm 30. -
How to discuss drunken infidelity with my partner?
Halle Berry23 replied to whoopsie's topic in Infidelity
The first step to recovery is admiting that you have a problem. Unfortunately you have to be truthful with your partner. There's no telling of what the outcome will be but you can't base your relationship on lies. Yes it will hurt her and she will lose trust but trust can be rebuilt overtime. Alcohol alters your mind, there's no knowing what you can or cannot do and if you can't control your liquor, rather don't drink. I hope it works out for you champ! -
Please advice, I believe I'm in a situationship with this fabulous man but the thing is, I'm a single mother and he doesn't have any, he likes me and expressed this multiple times but his also distant and he opened up and told me that the reason is because theres so much that comes with being in a relationship with me and the level of commitment therefore he has reservations about us... I have fallen for him but I emphasize with him
