GreggT

Yes, men do look at porno on the net from time to time, but it is in good taste not to do it around their lovers. I would be pissed off if a woman did that to me so this is not a "man/woman thing." Tell him not to do it around you. He is being rude. If he complains, there are sites out there for women to look at too. I hope you don't feel bad about this because he is the one being a jerk. Flush the toilet while he is in the shower.

I read your story and it seems like you have some tough choices to make. It is hard to like someone when he tells you he dates other people and tells you how hot other girls are. Why does he do that? Is he playing games with you? School is very important to people, but sane people can have a relationship and go to school. I think you should look at this "relationship" and how it is effecting you. Are you happy? Do you worry about it too much? Does it effect your daily life? And tell yourself you are better than this. If he cheated on you, that's not cool. Ask him if he wants a relationship. Ask him if it is worth your time to continue to see him. The idea of having "friends with privileges" is a two-way street: both parties must agree on that agreement. If you want a relationship and he does not, than this is not a good idea. Take care of yourself. If you trust your friends, and they tell you to get over him, follow their advice. It is hard to get over anyone...really hard. But it can happen. You will be surprised how strong you can be when you have to be. Take care

Any break up is hard. And it is not dumb to feel the way you do. It happens to all of us. That is why some of the best songs ever written are about breaking up and dealing with those feelings. Some people end relationships with hate and pain, which is bad for everyone. It sounds like you still care about this person; that is a good thing, but don't wait for him to get back to you. Do what you can to be happy. It sounds corny, but you control the joy in life. If he ended it, do not feel bad about yourself. Music helps me deal with my emotions and to quote a song, "When in doubt, move on. The wind will sort it out." This means some things are out of our control, and all we can to is just live. Take care