mrkrinkle2

The only thing I could think of is her going there to see this guy could mean a couple of things, but I can only think that she's going there to have some kind of closer from him. She could be thinking their might be something still there, but then realize that it wasn't what it was cracked up to be. She's the kind of person to have to say it to someone's face, but why would she make an effort to just go there to say goodbye to a person?? I mean Maybe this is closer for her, but I can't say for sure cause I dont' know what she is thinking and I'm not going to try to dwell on it what do you guys think. I love her completely I never had feelings for someone so strong before and this is why it's so hard for me to just not say see ya have a good life. What do you think????

I was dating this girl on and off mostly on for almost a year. We have had our ups and downs. She had a hard time telling me she loved me because she felt if she did She'd disappoint me in some way. She loves me alot, but still has this other guy 3,000 miles away that she still has a part of her that she loves. Told me give her a month to figure things out. Then I was like ok take that month and really think about it. She said she would get rid of my number and his, but herd though the grape vine shes going to see him for a weekend. I can only think of 2 things 1 she's going to see him and see if she's really in love with him. OR 2 She's going there to say goodbye forever. She's the kind of person to tell it to their face regardless of distance. Seriously can anyone make sense of this?? Why would someone need a month to see if she really loved me or him? Wouldn't the answer be right in front of her?? She tells me she really loves me but is this a sign?? Like should I wait this out and hope for the best or am I wasting my time? PLEASE HELP ME anyone!!!!

Here's the thing we all at one point have looked or have seen porn. I feel sometimes it's actually nice to watch it with your lover you get ideas or just laugh at it. Make it a fun time not I don't trust him time. Better him watching it on TV then doing something in real life. Find some movies you could watch together. Honestly it's not as bad as you think it is. I have had a few girl friends watch it with me, and it's actually fun. If anything it could get you guys in the mood to a point were instead of watching the movie he's watching you. All guys watch porn well for th most part. It's normal thing. Sooooo learn to like it with him! If anything after awhile he won't even be intrested in it His eye's will be on you!

ANything Fiona Apple Her songs are great there like a F U to the person you broke up with and you don't need to dwell on it man. Their are alot of girls out there keep on searching there is someone out there for everyone!!! Peace

Well for me the break was making me insane. But I already made the prediction that she would call me and cave. And she did. I guess it was a few things that she just didn't like about us. 1. I moved in waaay too soon like a week or so after we started dating(but I knew her for 2 years) 2. She was living in a Studio and there was no space when I Was living there. 3 She felt like we were married and that really freaked her out. I guess all these factors add up. but what doesn't is that she told me she's not sure if she could ever love me. But I asked her then why do you stay with me then? She said "because you make me feel good about myself and happy". booster for me!! She told me she doesn't want a serious relationship right now. She just wants to date me. Which is understandable considering that every guy she's ever had never really dated cuase it was always a serious relationship. So I feel now it's like I take a step back to make steps forward. Seems that way. Any Feedback would be nice. krinkle

Ok, here it goes I have been dating this girl now for almost 7 months. I knew her before as an accuance for like 2 years. She had no idea I liked her for the longest time(mostly cause she was always taken) and I love being with her. Things have been rocky here and there, but the best thing is we have fun where ever we go. She wants crazy reaurance of are we good together and why are we good together? I tell her cause we have fun where ever we go or what ever we do. and I love your companionship. Now she has this thing of I have always known what I have wanted now she has everything she wants and it bothers her cause of all these things still don't make her happy. SO she wanted some space and we decied on a month. Just so she could get her self back together and think about things and if the relationship she's in she wants to stay in. Problem is her last relationships haven't been the best always turned out bad. This is the first one for her that everything works well, but for some reason can't say I love you I mean I was saying it for awhile, but I stopped caused it bothered her. To be honest I do still love her, but crushes me she can't say it back. I dont' push it on her what so ever. Just so I don't push her away more. So my question is is this pointless for me to go on a break and give her the full space she needs and hope we will get back together? Or Am I just settign myself up for failure anyway? I really do love her alot and care about her, but something makes me feel like she doean't want to bother. We made rules that no talking, no chatting, no E-mails no nothing. Is that right? I mean communication is Key to a relationship. Some one Please HELP!! Mrkrinkle2