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Turn on: Telling me you want me. Doesnt have to be sexually or anything but straight out saying how much you like me once in a while. Being a LITTLE bit of a tease. This might sound strange but I love it when girls act a bit mysterious and hard to get. the thing that wrecks it though is when they dont know when to stop. Turn offs: Being full of it. I hate girls who think they are all that and can get whatever they want. Girls who play hard to get too much. A little is hot. Too much is such a turn off.

Thanks guys you have really helped me, I was really confused for a while and ready to go rushing off looking for her. I am planning on going back soon and hopefully I will see her there. But if not hey I'm just as happy.

I think that if I see her again i will probably talk to her and see what she is like, but I am not going to obsess over her or anything or go looking for her.

I think the best way to do it is not just throw yourself at him because that can be a turnoff but give him some obvious hints and never play too hard to get, or we will think you really just dont want us.

lol yeah ive seen that too. But i have to say I dont think that every girl at a club is drunk and on a one night stand sort of thing. I have a lot of friends who are girls that are trying to meet guys there. Also i have made some really good friends at places like this which could have been girlfriends if we had clicked.

I know man you are telling the truth. I know its just like physical attraction and it will go away soon but damn, its hard to get rid of it.

This might sound bad but it is true: 1. overall height, weight I have never had a successful relationship with a girl taller then me, I have a hard time feeling physically attracted to larger girls because to me that says that they have lack of self control 2. Hair, Face, eyes Hair is a big deal to me because it says a lot about a person and their personality Face because you can often tell what they are like by their facial expressions (smiling etc) Eyes dont really have anything to do with personality as far as i can tell, but I know I love it when a girl has soft innocent looking eyes 3. The way they move If they move like they dont know why they are here, maybe they are too shy for me These are the first things i notice when I see a girl. I notice these things usually all within the first 2 or three glimpses of her.

Thanks, I get where you are coming from, but I don't think I will find love at a club, but maybe someone who likes to have fun and go out. I am only 15 and I dont even know what love is yet, i get that. But that doesn't mean I cant date. And if it was a one time thing thats fine too. I am not looking for anything serious yet. I enjoyed it and have no regrets about it.

this might sound naive but im almost certain she wasnt drunk. for one i would have tasted it as i was sober. and second it was for underage people so no drinks allowed.

Ok so I went to this dance/club/ whatever and I met this girl. We started grinding (whatever you call it) and then she turned around so she was facing me. We started making out and grinding at the same time and it got pretty intense and we were really going at it (but no sex). Then one of her friends came and said they had to leave then because there ride was about to leave so they rushed off and I never got her name or anything. I am still a little dazed as i have never done this before and I am wondering if I should go back (it is on once a week) to see if she is there. I don't know if she would want it to go any farther then that, maybe it was just a one time thing. Should I just forget about it?

I don't care about race but I do care about how they act. Some of my black friends distance themselves from myself and my other white friends, I think because they feel that they have to live out stereotypes. I would never discriminate against someone because of something like race, but the past has had such a negative effect on peoples views of other races that it is sometimes hard to relate to someone of a different race.

I am 15, and a guy so I'll give my thoughts. First, its important that you let him hang out with his friends, dont get mad when he does. Second tell him everyonce and a while how u like him. Lots of the time guys are unsure of what a girl is really thinking and is worried she is unhappy with him. 3rd most guys I know love being close to their gf. what I mean is they like holding them etc. 4th do NOT talk about how a guys looks, insulting or saying he is sexy. also don;t try to make him jealous by saying someone is hot or something. 5th thing, if he asks you to go out with his friends with him, try to go as much as you can. Anways thats just some stuff, hope it works out.

no offence to anyone on this board, but this is an extremely sensitive and complex issue, and I dont think you should be searching on the internet for answers to this. I come from a family of divorced parents and whatever you choose will have a DEEP and profound effect on your life and your childs. I think that at times like this you need to turn to your family and possibly counseling.

I dont know if the girl i llike goes out with older guys its never really been brought up but i think her friends only go out wth these older guys because they are older. one of her friends is goin out with the biggest doosh ever, hes just a big druggy. So i dont think its maturity that her friends are after anyways. anyways im not planning on asking her out right now because i am enjoying what we have already and i want to find out more about her and if she is just like her friends or not.

o yeah the girl in my class hangs out with one of the other groups of "hot chicks" and her friends are like all dating older guys. do you think that she might not go out with me because he friends wont like me. I have problably never said a word to them because most of them seem like stupid a55(no swearing i guess) girls trying to be kool by going out with older guys. So that is probably the biggest problem about this whole thing. Im worried because if we go out i will have to hang out with her friends at somepoint or it will be like she is choosing between her friends and me and that would be bad. highschool is way to confusing lol.

yea I am a little worried maybe the fact that i like her is making me imagine things, but i dont really think she is like head over heels for me or anything but i do think that because we talk so much and have lots of fun together (or at least thats what it seems like to me) that she would probably at least give it a chance. lol or at least let me down easy.

Ok well Im supposed to go to the last dance of the year tomorrow, and I was planning on asking this one girl out who I talk to sometimes but I dont think has ever shown any special interest in me. and there is another girl who is gorgeous in one of my classes who is on of the nicest people I have ever met and she loves to laugh and smile. Even if she wasnt so physically beautiful i would still want to go out with her because of her personality. i am only fifteen but she is pretty much the girl of my dreams. now This girl in my class seems like she would be a person who would be going out with the older guys and she seems way out of my league but I dont think she really is that way. She could have any guy in our grade she wanted though. she sits right in front of me and basically all we do all class is talk and laugh and all that. It seem like she might like me but she also talks and laughs with all the other guys too just not as much. Now the first girl is a great girl but I just dont think she is interested and even if she says yes I am starting to think it wont work out. But I also dont know if this other girl is interested or not and she does seem out of my league. Should I ask the girl in my class out or the girl at the dance out? or should i not ask either out? i dont want to lose what I already have with the girl in my class.

So I like this girl and we talk sometimes, she hasnt shown any special interest in me really but I thought Id ask her out anyways. We are both in grade 9 and 15 by the way in canada. So there is the last dance of the year on friday and we are both goin and we both have lots of fun at it so I thought Id ask her out after dancing with her on the last slow dance. One of my friends (a girl) who is also her friend thought this would be an interesting way of asking her out. anyways what do you think? good idea bad idea? to corny maybe?

wow a lot of replies! anyways I think that it is kind of selfish to do what you said yahoo. A guy puts themselves on the line when all women have to do is sit back and never face rejection,embarrassment ect.!? Now I agree if a guy has the confidence to ask a girl out that says something about him but at the same time guys would like a confident girl too. there is a reason why the girls who flirt with all the guys get more dates. They are more confident and they show it. They are usually a lot more fun because they are outgoing people. at the very least make your hints more obvious because we are not constantly looking for what signals we can get. we miss stuff. There have been so many times where I havent even known someone is interested because they avoid me etc because they are worried about rejection or too nervous or embarrassed.

Please ladies, if you are interested in a guy just tell him! Almost every guy I know would love it if women would just tell them if they like them or ask them out. Too many females play games and personally it gets frustrating and even childish sometimes. Plus since a lot of men are used to being the one who asks you out they will problably say yes just because you asked THEM out.

So I like this girl and we talk sometimes, she hasnt shown any special interest in me really but I thought Id ask her out anyways. We are both in grade 9 and 15 by the way in canada. So there is the last dance of the year on friday and we are both goin and we both have lots of fun at it so I thought Id ask her out after dancing with her on the last slow dance. One of my friends (a girl) who is also her friend thought this would be an interesting way of asking her out. anyways what do you think? good idea bad idea? to corny maybe?