Pattye

I also may disagree with the other advice. Why should you break up with her now? Do you love her? So try to help her.

it's her who has to buid her self steem. Anything you say won't make any difference at all.You can suggest her some counseling, in a sweet way. But always praise her, working or not.

Do guys like women who are hard to get? A guy started going after me and when I showed interest he wasn't the same anymore. What do you suggest?