Hi,
My girlfriend feels unattractive, and finds it hard to accept that she is attractive, resulting in her being very conscious of her apperance.
To be completely honest; she is beautiful. I think that the problem has stemmed from when she was young, and her friends and parents never telling her that she was pretty/attractive etc. So when I tell her that she is beautiful, she doesn't really believe me.
It has caused big problems in our relationship - mainly jelousy, and she is very sensitive to how I act towards other girls. I have never even slightly done anything she needs to worry about, and never would, but she finds it hard to trust me. She constantly annalyses other girls looks and worries that I might fancy them.
Jelousy caused her last relationship to split, and I'm scared that it might do the same to us. I'm completely in love with her, and would be devestated if this were to happen.
We have tried a hypnotherapy download for "feel attractive now", but she didn't really like that.
I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions for how I can help her build her self esteem?
I'd really appreciate any tips!