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I for one have to agree with richgabe, for I too prefer the afternoon. However, for me, it's because it's in the middle of my day, a short intermission between work, and it makes me feel like i'm doing something bad, having sex when I should be getting ready for work.

I for one don't consider myself a jealous person, but I prefer to know my love's past, and I know she is the one I am truly destined to spend the rest of my life with, and I know that whatever she said, it wouldn't change the way I feel. I also think it was based on a little male insecurity, because it was my first time when I had sex with my girlfriend, and not hers. It was also partly that she was still married, I wanted to know why she would get married with someone she didn't love. But I guess I just try to understand people too much. Sorry so lengthy aphrodite24, but I just wanted to put an example of why someone might be happier if you did tell them.

yeah, but I guess I just don't feel as much, down there, it might not be the same with other guys, sorry for double posting

I for one, represent the population of guys who find it harder to orgasm from handjobs, and oral, but it might just be me, because I take longer to have an orgasm in general, although my G/F doesn't mind if I let her have two before I take mine.

I understand where some of the other guys here say it's a "No Way!" and I agree with them on some level, but that is only because I believe in knowing your partner's sexual history before getting into anything with them. However, if you just do it, I'd rather be safe and have it feel different, then feel good at the cost of something valuable to me.

I was 20 and she was 19

I know this topic has probably been done to death, but I haven't seen any even semi-recent posts on it, and I find it an interesting topic. So, do you consider oral sex sex, or not? I, to throw in my own thought, do. But I am interested in other points of view.

It's my opinion that cheating consists of any unfaithful act. If it makes you feel guilty enough to not tell your boyfriend about, then it is considered cheating. Encompassed by this includes having sex, and then it is all a matter of whether or not you consider oral sex to be sex. I for one do, but this is a topic for another post.

I've known since probably 8, and spent the next twelve years getting very knowledgeable before making love to my current girlfriend, and she is my only.

I don't know about the rest of you people, but I for one love going down on my girlfriend, but I guess I'm more of a giver than a receiver anyday, but I do enjoy the taste of it.