Shysoul, I hope that you will NEVER change. You are rare, and you should be proud of that! There are guys out there like you, and I would like to personally thank you for being a mature & kind person that you are. Shysoul's smart. He's not out there to break girls' hearts. He's got much better things to do than that. There are plenty of things to worry about in this world other than, "Oh, women like bad boys." I for one, will never go for a bad boy, nor will I ever fall for a guy who personifies that bad boy attitude. Whoever wants to date a womanizer must be crazy. Besides that, I think its very oppressive for people to think that treating women like crap is the way to win her heart. That's terrible.