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ACTUALLY he knows i like tongue but i always try not to show him am not enjoying it as much without tongue..i want him to feel comfortable and to like makin out rather than feel turned off by myu tongue in his mouth! (yes am old enuff the the beer advice but i dont like beer..any other flavor than turns u guys on?>

how can i make him want tongue? my bf doesnt like using the tongue a lot while kissing, he says it isnt very sexy to him and he prefers just using the lips.. anyway the thing is that am really into tongue and it turns me on, besides, its easier to come up with new things using the tongue, whereas only lips is getting boring for me and i cant seem to find new ways to kiss him with only my lips..does anyone have tips on new ideas for kissing without the tongue? it shouldnt be sloppy either..he's into the romantic slow and sexy style rather than the aggressive style. any ideas guys? even better would be a subtle way to use my tongue and maybe stimulate him to want to use it too. i am beginnin to get bored from our usual makin out and am not that turned on anymore. any suggestions would be appreciated! thanks..

my bf doesnt like using the tongue a lot while kissing, he says it isnt very sexy to him and he prefers just using the lips.. anyway the thing is that am really into tongue and it turns me on, besides, its easier to come up with new things using the tongue, whereas only lips is getting boring for me and i cant seem to find new ways to kiss him with only my lips..does anyone have tips on new ideas for kissing without the tongue? it shouldnt be sloppy either..he's into the romantic slow and sexy style rather than the aggressive style. any ideas guys? even better would be a subtle way to use my tongue and maybe stimulate him to want to use it too. i am beginnin to get bored from our usual makin out and am not that turned on anymore. any suggestions would be appreciated! thanks..

Someone else, i can relate a bit to you.. my new bf doesnt want to have sex either, he says (although i dont go for it) that in his previous sexual relationships, there was always sex problems to deal with(such as constant comparisons btween different times for example) and it kind of increasingly took on a large part of the relationship. he prefers to make out and stay away from actual sex so we keep things fiery and exciting, and concentrate on the emotional aspect. i know it sounded very weird to me that a guy is declining sex but apparently it does happen! i know we're still a new couple whilst u and ur bf are serious, but i just wanted to share this.

CarnelianButterfly did ur rromie have that symptom all the time? or did it happen only in particular stressful times for example? i dont have it usually, its only when am very stressed(like very angry and crying) or when am excited(sexually) or when iu work out in gym..there must be a sommon factor (maybe muscle tension)? can anyone reason it out?i never thought of it as a big deal but since it has occurred several times in the bedroom am starting to worry

i've noticed something about myself whenever i am am tense , (example: when my bf and i get too intimate or when am doin sit ups in the gym). the muscles in my eyelids and lips start contracting by themselves without any voluntary effort on my side. then when i relax a bit it goes away. when am with my bf in the bedroom and this happens it ruins everything since i cant vountarily move my lips to kiss him anymore, in addition to the unease it causes me. does anyone know of such a symptom? i am thinkin of seein a doc, but i thought i'd ask first. i think it's related to tension (when am intimate) but when am in the gym and work out my uper body it happens too. could it be a nervous system error? i knom it sounds freaky but it happens..feedback? thanks anyway

DN no i havent. anyway i was the first one to make advances coz i knew he was the reserved type and he was waiting for me to be ready. so i did. the problem is in the level of excitement. i always feel and act like i want him a lot whereas he doesnt show this enthusiasm. still, to him he considers that coz he is doin the thing that i should know that he wants me (coz if he didnt he wouldn've done it ,get it?)..i donno if this is a sound reasoning on his side.. tell me

i dont feel that my bf is aggressive in sex(in that i mean he doesnt delve into it like something he strongly desires). i feel that he does it but without much physical desire. it hurts me because it makes me feel he doesnt want me or that am not attractive to him. he says its not so at all, so am wondering, if he isnt a controlling person in the sex does that mean he has less feelings for me? i feel as if its me who's always making the moves as if i'm jumping him while he's reserved, although the process in itself occurs with no problem. i wanna know from the guys! PS: he is the reserved type, in feelings and thoughts. i knew that from b4, but i expect the guy to be more interested in the sex than me! i mean HE'S the guy! why do i always feel i want to get physical more than him?and when we do, am the one who's always takin the initiatives.he doesnt take control of things. it makes me feel like he doesnt really want me and cant wait to have me! tho i know he's really into me. whats wrong? is it just him being shy?! please tell me!