cafeman

After my last post here, I thought I was fine. Not until I found out whom she is dating. My best friend's friend. Apparently, my best friend introduced his best friend to my ex. After their meeting, this man asked for my ex's number. They have beeing talking since then. He lived in Houston and would come up here in Dallas to stay with her in her apt. God knows what they are up to. I felt betrayed by my friend, I thought he is my best friend. And he knows how I felt about my ex still. No wonder he kept say,"forget about her." Secretly, he wants his friend to date her. I am so alone on this one.

Hang in there K_N_AZ, My ex even admitted she has slept with someone since we broken up 2 months ago. She is dating another new guy now as well. Tell him about it. I feel sick to my stomach, may be we both feel like we can't get over the fact that we let the best things happen to us, slip thru our fingers. I blamed myself why I let her walked out the door without a fight. I just left her with a note in the morning. By the time, I got home from work, whole bedroom is empty, only with my stuff. It was clear to me she would never come back anymore. I kept telling myself to let her go and spent more time with friends and family. There is nothing wrong of being single. She is just not the one, i guess. Everything happens for a reason. It's better to know it sooner than later. I have determined to come out of this situation stronger than bitter. You should too, pm me if you want to talk. Alan

Hi, I have been reading some posts for sometimes and I JUST decided to became a member. My ex left me 2 months ago. We have lived together for 2 yrs. She moved out and left me with a ring I gave her. We haven't been contacting each other much. We have agreed not to see each other for 30 days. Today is the 30th day. She called and left me with a message saying she is going out of town and she still have mails coming to my resident. So, I decided to drop them of for her, by the way, she moved in to a new apt. on her own. As I pulled in the parking lot, there was light in her living room, so I called, she said she is home. I kept on talking to her on the phone while knocking on her door. She said, "wait". Then I saw the someone came peek at the door from inside. She said she was in the bathroom. I immediately knew there is someone else besides her in the apt. I told her open up anyway, I said, " I know someone is in there besides you, I know you are seeing someone, I just wanna drop off the mails." She told me to wait by her car. After a minutes or so, she walked out and I asked who is in there. A guy of course, how silly am I to ask. She said she is seeing him for few weeks and she also have slept with another guy one time. My heart just dropped and I held strong. This is a woman I thought would be a mother of my child and now, she acts so recklessly, juggling two guys at the same time. I never thought of her that way. I told her ti be careful getting sexual diseases. She said she is using protection. I care about her, I do. I told myself even if we can't be lovers, I still want her to be friends. Hearing her voice comforts me. But, the truth is I just felt too weak around her. She will suck me back in. Anyway, I told her to be safe and she is driving back to Nashville as I wrote this. It's her cousin's birthday. Man, I do love her families. All her sisters called me brother in law even we haven't been engage or marry. We have been dating and living for 2 1/2 years. I met everyone on her families. Wasted love???? Well, She said she will call me later when she comes back. maybe she will introduce her new bf to me. I do wish her happy and hope she finds someone who loves her, the love she deserved from me. Tonight, I think I have closure now. I can really move on. I know this is a everyday process and I need to take babystep, and I pray the Lord give me strength to get through this. At last, God bless you all, thanks for listening.

Hi, My advice is poor your heart out and say what's on your mind. Don't hold back like I did. DO your best and be honest. Don't force the issue though, you can't force someone to love you back, free will my dear. I learnt my mistakes and she just slips between my fingers. We just felt out of love and there is no turning back now. DON'T take anyone for grant, cuz you never know that would be the every last time you ever see him/her. Life us too short, no doubt. Live everyday the best you know how. God Bless

Hi, I have been reading some posts for sometimes and I JUST decided to became a member. I'm sorry for what happened to you. I'm experiencing the same thing. My ex left me 2 months ago. She moved out and left me with a ring I gave her. We haven't been contacting each other much. We have agreed not to see each other for 30 days. Today is the 30th day. She called and left me with a message saying she is going out of town and she still habe mails coming to my resident. So, I decided to drop them of for her, by the way, she moved in to a new apt. on her own. As I pulled in the parking lot, there was light in her living room, so I called, she said she is home. I kept on talking to her on the phone while knocking on her door. She said, "wait". Then I saw the someone came peek at the door from inside. She said she was in the bathroom. I immediately knew there is someone else besides her in the apt. I told her open up anyway, I said, " I know someone is in there besides you, I know you are seeing someone, I just wanna drop off the mails." She told me to wait by her car. After a minutes or so, she walked out and I asked who is in there. A guy of course, how silly am I to ask. She said she is seeing him for few weeks and she also have slept with another guy one time. My heart just dropped and I held strong. This is a woman I thought would be a mother of my child and now, she acts so recklessly, juggling two guys at the same time. I never thought of her that way. I told her ti be careful getting sexual diseases. She said she is using protection. I care about her, I do. I told myself even if we can't be lovers, I still want her to be friends. Hearing her voice comforts me. But, the truth is I just felt too weak around her. She will suck me back in. Anyway, I told her to be safe and she is driving back to Nashville as I wrote this. It's her cousin's birthday. Man, I do love her families. All her sisters called me brother in law even we haven't been engage or marry. We have been dating and living for 2 1/2 years. I met everyone on her families. Wasted love???? Well, She said she will call me later when she comes back. maybe she will introduce her new bf to me. I do wish her happy and hope she finds someone who loves her, the love she deserved from me. Tonight, I think I have closure now. I can really move on. I know this is a everyday process and I need to take babystep, and I pray the Lord give me strength to get through this. At last, God bless you all, thanks for listening.