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WOW that poem is really deep. I can read your frustration with your ex and really see the pain he/she caused you. Great job keep writing!

Ahh don't worry about it. We can catch up tomorrow!

WOW Angel that was a sad poem. I loved it but, really sad. Are you ok?

I've heard it that way too, but "a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed" are the intellectual words of the great Ludacris.

 

 

OK Got ya! I have never heard that saying said in that fashion.

"lady in the streets, but a freak in the bed".

I have not heard that saying said like that. I have always heard it as "Lady in the streets and a freak between the sheets."

Dako was referring to cutting him out of your life. It sort of reminds me of an gethimoutofmylifedecitmy.

Oh good! But do the nice guys want a divoced girl with two kids?

Well my ex had twins from a previous marriage. I don't think ALL men would be put off by that hun. If you look there are men out there that will treat you the right way and you would not have to question his actions all the time.

Wow. I think i've been in denail about this and how bad it's become. Where are all the loving guys? Why don't I find them?

We are here! Trust me on that one. I feel the same way about the ladies myself!

The way I look at this subject is as long as your sex life is not lacking then why worry. I agree that it is a fantasy thing and sometimes guys like to get a quick one off. It has nothing to do with you and if he started to refuse you in the bed then I would say differently.

ewwwwww....... nasty..... poor old you.

Well it was the same situation with her. Both times she had another guy in the wings when she told me she did not want to be in a relationship with me anymore. I can totally relate to the OP of this thread.

I have to say why ask why?

You NEED TO LEAVE HER NOW!! Don't look back EVER!!!

I had an ex like that and she broke my heart in high school and eight years later we hooked up again. Then she broke my heart again!

Your ex sounds a lot like my ex and I tell you from my experiences you HAVE TO GET OUT OF HER LIFE NOW!!!!

Or you can read my thread about No Contact

Well in my past relationships I was always ready for action if you get my drift. I would want it twice a day but, as I have aged I would say that once a day is good for me. Although I have to admit that I would be happy with 3 or 4 times a week.

Lets get back to the OP topic. I agree we all disagree and should leave it at that. I don't want to take away from the OP question. If you want to discuss this still PM Annie and I.

Thanks,

Hub

well, this is getting a bit off topic, but i think that the point is that generalizations aren't always a great way to go or get your point accross. not all men are jerks or idiots, and not all women jealous, etc..... everyone is different and it can put people off making broad generalizations.

Exactly my point and I could not have said it better myself.

Fruit-smoothie, I don't make a habit of making statements in front of my SO like that and neither does he.

 

It is a maturity, (or lack thereof) thing.

 

Ignore his comment.

 

 

Here here I agree with Rodeo-Rider completely!

I don't give a flying loop about what the typical male does...the typical male is an ignoramus...

Normally I would not respond to a thread like this because I cannot relate to OP problem. Although I do agree that the OP should NOT be attacked because of the SHE feels. I wanted to add my two cents here because what he said was very tactless and is something he could learn to keep to himself.

As for Caterina I have to say I have TAKEN offense to the quote above. NOT ALL MEN ARE IGNORAMUSES! Most men are actually good people and they get their feelings hurt all the time too. People will be people no matter what the gender is.

Time in this case will make all things seem better. You need to keep busy so you don't sit around and sulk over this.

Hi there. I'm sure that telling your story was very hard. I agree that you should get professional help.

Bella brings up a good point here. I think you should seek some professional help with this since it seems to be bothering you so much. It seems like there are some unresolved issues here that need to be dealt with.

Do the right thing for you and your family.

Hub

he kisses a *guy* while you watch.

well if I was given that choice I think I would be happy with how things ended up. I think I might be sick from the image! Thanks TRQ for the visual! **mmmppphhhttt**

Well you MUST GO SEE A DOCTOR ASAP! I have NEVER EVER had anything like that happen and I know I would be in the car going to the hospital if that ever happened to me.

I think Hubman is giving you some excellent advice. Tell him no, and see if he persists in this. His reaction will give you a good indication if he's with you for you, or to primarily fulfill his sex drive and fantasies.

Thanks Scout!

I figured I would give a man's point of view here. Whether or not she takes it is her decision. Shau_nee tell him you don't want to do this with him. Tell him how you feel about the jealousy and all. If he cannot take that NO as the answer then you know he is not with you for the right reasons and you need to leave him quickly.

so what you guys are saying is no. he would not ask me to do this if he loved me. and he is disrespectful to me.

I have never said that. I said that if you say no then she should respect that decision. If he keeps going on and on about it then he is not with you for the same reasons your with him.

If you are not comfortable with doing a three way fling then DON'T DO IT! It is that easy and if you tell you bf that you are NOT comfortable doing it that should be the end of the discussion.

If he keeps going on and on about doing it then he is not there to be with you he is trying to fulfill a fantasy. If that is true then you need to show him the curb and leave his butt! If he loved you and asked you to do this. Then you said no that should be the end of that talk. PERIOD!

PLEASE KEEP THIS THREAD ON TOPIC!

Thank you!