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The best revenge is to move on with your life and to be happy. This guy is a jerk for being so immature but, that does not mean you have to step down to his level.

I agree with the others here and be the bigger person. I do have to add to it by saying that he will have to deal with you as you have his child. I would look into ways to get some support from him for the child.

I love it Ang3l! I have been a big fan of your poetry for a long time now!

Sheesh my dear, why do you think I am going into Law? It's all for you

 

 

 

 

HAHAHAHa I would be your biggest client!!! hee hee Muh ha ha ha ha ha

Congrats RayKay on following your dreams! I hope you one day come to the states so I can use your legal advice!

Well Lady that is a totally different story then. I WOULD report her then as I thought she was doing a person here and a person there. If she has a makeshift salon in her home then she should be held to the same standards as any other small business owner.

REPORT HER BUTT THEN!!! I would wait a few weeks before I do though so there is some plausible deniability on your part.

If questioned one day:

What someone reported you? Oh my thats terrible. How could someone do that to you....**snickers**

Also Hub...I would never do what she is doing from my house because it IS NOT legal. She knows it's not legal yet has NO problem with doing it anyway.

Says a LOT about her character.

OK I did not mean to insult you Lady. I wanted to say that I know a few friends of mine that do hair out of their homes to make a few extra bucks. They (my friends at least) only use friends and acquaintances in their personal life. If she is hurting your business then I would be all for reporting her. As someone else pointed out she will a distant memory soon! The choice is yours to report her or not. If she has hurt your business then I would report her ASAP! I am sorry you have been taken advantage of as I know how much that sucks!

Good luck,

Hub

Tough call here. I would say that you have every right to be mad at her. I would let her finish out this week and let her go. Personally, if you were in her position and needed money I bet you would be doing the same thing at home.

I guess you have the choice to call on her but, if she really has done nothing to hurt your business that you can prove. Well I would let her walk and would not bother calling the state. Then again I am telling you how I WOULD HANDLE THIS. You have every right to do what you think needs to be done here.

As a half-decent human being, he'll understand, yah?

WOW thats really harsh.

If you explain to your bf that it hurts and you need to take more time to adjust I am sure any NORMAL human being would understand.

No one is a mind reader here and we all need to communicate with each other. Never assume that your partner (male or female) will be able to know looking at you that your hurting. TELL THEM!!

You may have to call the police to gain access to your ex's apartment. I don't know what the laws are where you live but, you may have to sue him to get your stuff back. I would call the local police on a non emergency (not 911) number and ask them this very question.

Thanks all.

I suppose a bit of antsiness would improve my personality, so I'll try to channel it.

Hubman, did you have stomach upset at first? I was nauseous and thought I had the flu. Normally, drugs don't faze me but this one must have my number.

You know what the first few weeks I was on it I did have minor stomach irritation. I do have to say it does go away and that may also be a side effect of coming off the prozac.

I have been on welbutrin for about two years now. I have to say that I have not had any side affects from the med at all. I haven't felt any side effects from welbutrin except for the antzy feelings and the in ability to sit still sometimes.

Welcome to EnotAlone.com!

Could you please break your post into paragraphs. You will find you will get more responses from members if you do. Thank you!

I have a very simple answer to your problem.

LEAVE HIM!! It is quite a different story here sweetie. As it is HIM that is not good enough for you. He is a cheater and an abusive partner who insults you every chance he get. Personally, if he can goto the beach with a friend then why the hell can you not goto NYC and have some fun?

Hun no one deserves to treated like this and I don't understand why you just don't show him the curb. Yes it will be painful and sad/depressing but, in the long term you will see the whole situation in a different light. You screwed up by lying to him yes but, that does not give him the right to put you down or tell you what to do.

Screw that it is a holiday weekend and no one should be home by themselves while he is out gallivanting.

Sorry I think your depression and anxiety come from this toxic relationship! I don't think you need a therapist, IMHO I think you need to lose this JERK!!!

-Hub

WOW all I can say is wow!!

listen you don't have to beat up yourself for this. This guy is a creep and you should never talk to him again. Use this as a learning experience for the future.

I have to say I was reading both your threads and I felt a great sadness for you loss. You have to know that your father loved you and never question that. Some men are not as emotional as others are. My dad only started saying I love you after his younger brother died. I always thought he hated me. To be totally honest with you I felt the same way in may aspects of my life. The only difference is I made a change in my life by myself.

You need to stop thinking about yourself in such a negative way. You need to say to yourself that your NOT worthless and you do have something to add to the world. It is upto you to stop complaining about it and take action! Do it for you, Do it for the memory of your dad. Get yourself to some counseling and try to get things right inside. You will never get a woman with such a negative attitude.

Get yourself together man and start making the changes of the things that bother you the most. Take things with a grain of salt. BTW sometimes life can suck and we all have our ups and downs. learn to ride the rollercoaster of live and you can do anything you want!

I like the hardwood floor look myself. So I would say completely shaven is for me.

Welcome to eNotAlone.com!

If you want to have some advice then why don't you give us some insight to your issue. Don't go into Explicit details but, give us the gist of the problem.

I should have known that he was wayyyyy, wayy too good looking to not be. He also kept going on about how he hates where he lives...cos everyone is into how they look....but I doubt he has ever dated anyone other than for their looks....My friends think I should use his hotmail account to email all the other women in his address book to tell them what an A.H. he is? I don't feel I could do that, as that's not my style. BTW, thanks for the compliment!

There really is no way to know if a person is a player or not. These people are great Bull crap artists who can fool even themselves with their crap. You should be honored that he would come to you as much as he did because most of the time players are also gigolos.

As for the email thing I would just remove his hotmail account and let those women find out for themselves like you did. I know from experience from my past that I have to learn things on my own. I would always think I am different and I am special to this person only to find out I was not. Even if other people told me I would probably have to find out on my own. So I would just forget him and try to move on. I just hope that this man does not ruin your opinion of men in general. There is a man out there who will love you for whom you are so just hang in there. One day you will find the love of your life but, until then enjoy being you. Have fun and do all the things you want (as long as you don't hurt yourself).

Thanks I will use the PFO in all manners of the saying. I like it.

As for your guy problem...

That's a bit more tricky since no one but, that man can answer that. I felt by reading your post that he was a player looking to hook up with as many women as possible. Some people men and women are serial daters. There really is nothing you can do but, to move on and try to forget this man. There are plenty of men out there that are looking for a good woman like yourself.

So don't beat yourself up too badly because of this loser!

I don't think you picked it up wrong. You don't need a player in your life. This man uses women to get what he wants then when they show some feelings or interest he backs off.

Sounds like you made the right choice to me by telling him to PFO. BTW I have never heard that one before and I am sure it will be a new addition to my online slang. Thanks...

I can only add the following as I am NOT a Medical Doctor.

Please see a doctor ASAP! Before you stop taking the antibiotic.

First off if you don't want to do something the don't do it. I would not be worried that she thinks you have a small penis. Remember one thing, when you hug and you get a woody she CAN feel it.

BRAVO!!!! Sometimes it is easy to lose focus of what is truly important(you). I think it is great that your doing what is RIGHT for YOU! Who knows this break may be the best thing that could have happened to you both. No matter what happens you are doing the right thing!

If your needs are not being met then I suggest you talk to him. The problem it seems is that he is going to end the relationship. I would just up and leave as he is not meeting YOUR needs. Plus who wants to be in a relationship that may end at the drop of a hat? Walk away and move on.

Everyone is different when it comes to matters of the heart and bedroom. I would discuss this with your partner since he/she will be the only one to answer this question.