James_533

lol. Well now that u have the answer to your questions u can relax! the chances of u getting an std is rare when performing oral sex. So relax and enjoy it and of course have fun!!!

Hi there are few STD's or StI's that are transfered orally. U have a low risk of getting genital herpes orally but it is possible. the HIV cannot survive in the human mouth.

LOL I am not a girl and I like having candles. I am a hope less romantic. lost in my own world! where do u like to be touched? that is where she may like to be touched and the only way u can find out what the 2 of u like is by ecxperimenting with new things doing different things and then telling ur partner that u enjoy it or not enjoy

Hi. I know how u feel. I am a male but since I was young I felt like I was trapped in the wrong body. I have always been more femine then male. My parents were always telling me to be more manly and I was always afraid of being beaten up at school. I was aways treated with disrespect and things went from bad to worse. i to have thought about suicide but then I realized that wouldn't help the next person who comes later and walks in the same shoe that we walk in. if that makes sense? but hang in there love who u are if you would like to talk email removed

Just be his friend and be supportive

maybe you should just be straight up with him and tell him you sorta like him too. Hmm. that is easier said then done!

K u R in a relationship with this girl and u seem to be happy with her. But what about your sexuality are straight bi bi curious? Tell him that u like him as a friend and would like to remain friends with him. that u are deeply touched by his feelings toward u but that u can not reciporcate those feelings. But would like to remain friends with him. Be supportive as evidenently u are someone that he trusts by telling u this. Don't do anything that u would come to regret latter in life.

Yes there is a lot to consider when u are in love with someone. but just do what you want. WHEN U ARE READY and not before.

Hi. I was in the same situatuion as you are at this point ian time. I meet this guy at work and he had a girl friend. We became friends fast really fast. and one day he told me taht he dumped the girl. Well after that he started calling me everyday. it got to the point that I saw more of him then my own family who I lived with and I talked more to him then any other person. We worked together went out together talked on the phone etc. One day he told me he was gay but this is in a previous post. Anyway I kept it from him that I was gay until I was good and ready to tell him. I told him one day when we went out and I told him how I felt and how I feel towards him. He told me taht he was not gay annd taht he alreaddy knew how I felt towards him. We still see each other and hang out all the time but there is nothing hiding between us. lol he even suggested that we find me a boy friend. a joint effort. I said sure as long as I am able to help him find a perfect girl for him.. He came over last friday night and spent the nnight aat my new place and we talked all night long he arrived around 8pm and stayed until 10:45am we talked and delt with things that are needed to be talked about and we renewed our friendship. I could not ask for a more understanding friend then him.2

Hi. I have felt the same way that u do now but I had help with my issuses. Ending your life is not worth it. U are only 13 and have so much to learn and new experiances to enjoy. Sure u want a relationship now but when u are older that is when the true happiness come into play. Not only because u can do more but also because u are free within the laws of your country to do whatever u want. Also at the aaage of 13 u are dealing with a huge change in yourlife and so your sexual orientation is not yet fully developed. I had my first sexual experiance when I was 16 and no wI wish that I had waited so that I could have done alll of it for the first time with him. but alas life is not like that and I gave in to my horniness and through that away for a "quckie" and now I regret that. I suppose what I am saying is to be patient let your body and his develop and just don't go and do anything taht would ruin your relationship with your friend. and boy do I have a story for u about just about losing a friend on this veery subject that u would probably appreciate. so I may very well send it to. let me know if this has been of some help. Good Luck and may life treaat u kindly in the future 2228

No wonder u left me the message u did! there was so much that I left out because I was ashamed at what I had done. I feel the same way u do even though things are starting to look better. My last post the weekend that tyler said all that stuff to me I had attempted suicide. but that is becasue my love for him is so real and he knows it and he lied to me. I felt life was no longer worth living if it wasn't for friends that showed up I would not have been writing this message right now. I still have a hard time with the fact that he is willing to play with my emotions like that and get really depressed about it. sorry that this is not helping u in anyway but I am letting u know that u are not the only one going threw this type of problems. If his friends think that u are gay then probably he does to and has come to accept u for who u are. also if he doesn't know and u tell him then he will be there for u if he is a true friend. hope to hear from u email removed

Thanks for the input everyone. Just to let everyone know what is happening in my life. Tyler and I still talk 2x a day we are getting together for new years. My family is returning around. My grandmother called me today and we talked for 2hours cried alot and got things out in the open. So for everyone that is going through crap hang in there things may get better but before they do they may get worse as was my case. Remember that coming out is not the easiest thing in the world to do but u will be happier with yourself. I know that being gay is going to be a tough road but with the proper support I am going to succeed. and I am going to try and not let things get me down again. Not even Ty. hope things go well with u all and may your lives be filled with good health and happiness!

Has it only been a month! Wow. From the way things were going I thought that it was longer. U know what I mean shorty. thanks for the reply. I know that I have to wait but it is hard but I will. He and I have shared a kiss a rather long kissing session mind u. but nothing further than that. we do talk lots though and know a lot about each other and things like that. But I realize that he is confused and I just needed to know if it was just me or if other people would be just as confused as I am. As for the family my step father has influenced that alot.

Thanks for the advice I accept it. I just hope that I did not scare him away by telling him how I felt about him when he said all those things to me. I told him that whatever he is I will be there for him and that I would love to remain friends with him and that if anything happens I would be there.

Hi. Where to start? I moved out when I was 16 years old and had my first gay sexual experiance the day I moved out. I had always known I was different from other boys since I was 6 years old or younger. Anyway I could never come out because of the town that I lived in. Also there was the problem with religion see I was one of Jehovah's witnesses.( One of those people who would knock on your door Saturday morning). Well I moved away from that town when I was 19. I started working at Wendys and that is where I met Tyler. We started out as workmates and then a friendship blossomed. He was seeing this girl and then 2 weeks after he meet me he stopped seeing her. We started calling each other everyday and then we started spending time together. A couple of times he asked me if I was gay and I said no.( I was not ready to come out and I was also afraid that I would lose his friendship)( I know I showed alack of trust). Anyway one night he told me that he was gay. I said cool. and left it like that for awhile. by this time I was developing feelings towards him. Well anyway we had a party at his cabin. We went a day before everyone came down and we got things ready for the party and things like that if I had been feeling good we would have slept together but alas we did not. At the party he said in front of everyone that he wanted me talk about shocked, he not only shocked me but also his close friends. nothing happen that night either had I been in town I would have probably gone to the hospital I was that sick. It was a great and miserable weekend all at once. By the way when we went shopping he started calling me dear and honey. While shopping lol I just return them back. about a month later I took a huge step( all of this has happen since August 2004) I went home one weekend and I told my family that I was gay. Now at the time they were all right with it but now I am to have no contact with them. So when I came back I told Tyler that I was gay and that I talked with my parents about it. He said cool and after he left we did not talk for at least 2-3 weeks. I waited patiently for him to say something and one day when I was online he instant message me and we have been talking everyday since. Before we go to bed and when we wake up. However he told me he is not gay so I was confused and still am on why he would say all those things. We work the same shift but at to different stores. We both tried getting into the others store. He wants to move in with me. I hope this is all making sense. Lets speed things up here. Dec 17 which was Friday he told me he was bi and he invited me to go to the gay bar. We both have never been there. He came to my cousins house which is where I am staying until janurary 1st 2005 ( I had the place to my self for the weekend) How ever shortly after he arrived I recived a phone call from some friends of ours that wanted to go to a different bar. We both decided that we would go. He then proceed to tell me that he was not bi. by this time I had told him how I felt about him. Hours earlier. We did go to the bar and the next day he said he still wants to be friends with me and wants to move in with me in the new year. My questions is this what am I suppose to think when it comes to him? we still talk 2 times or more a day.