I was with this girl on and off for 3 yrs. I really love her , but we have had our disputes. Recently a month ago we broke up. I miss her terribly I did the no contact thing then decided out of the blue to send her an airplane ticket to join me for a weekend. This is her response. Can anyone help me analyze and give me suggestions on what to do?
Listen I got what you sent me and I know you are trying hard and want to show me that you want to be with me. But Babe please!!! I told you I need you to give me time. I'm not trying to hurt you babe, but I need to be alone right now. I will call you when I'm ready and I promised it would be before your birthday. Please just give me a second to figure things out, marrige and the future I have with you is a really big deal and I just need time. Please! Let me call you when I'm ready to talk please. Again I'm not trying to hurt you ...please don't hate me.