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I still love her tremendously..and I think she does to. I think she is afraid of the next step that I want because she is younger than Iam she is 25 and me 30. I wouldnt mind trying one more time.I guess Iam optimistic

Broke NC with ex..everything seems pretty normal. We talk, have never brought up the relationship part yet. Should I do so? any advice would be great

I hope it works out for me..Any advice I am so nervouse because I finally have the chance to get her back

Well I remained in NC for 1 month. I decided to call her to see what was happening. It looks like it might have worked and she told me she missed me, sorry etc.. She will call me later she told me. I will let you know what happens. Do you believe this is a good sign?

I did it..it wasnt to bad . a few emails back and forth.kept it light. told me to hold on to her stuff..is this a good sign? i have no idea But i was able to fell like I got a little closure.Even invited her to my new house warming party! Man I feel alot better I think

I agree it hurts like crazy because I really love this girl. and she knows it. But sometimes if you love something let it go if it comes back it was yours if it doesnt then it never was. Keep up the faith. I hope one day to reunite but right now I know it wont work it needs some space for her to realize it herself

I have done the break up, only to get back togethjer and now we are over again!! It can never really come back the way it was and the relationship will always feel like you are on egggshells. Dissappear for a while and give it some time I think you need at least three months before you can talk again and maybe rekindle.. I still have hope.. Any feed back would be great

Thanks for the reply. I already sent her anote earlier basically telling her how I felt and that I would talk to her soon. Hopefully she agree3s and she goes with me and I can try to win her heart again with a romantic getaway. thanks again..Damn I miss her!!!

I was with this girl on and off for 3 yrs. I really love her , but we have had our disputes. Recently a month ago we broke up. I miss her terribly I did the no contact thing then decided out of the blue to send her an airplane ticket to join me for a weekend. This is her response. Can anyone help me analyze and give me suggestions on what to do? Listen I got what you sent me and I know you are trying hard and want to show me that you want to be with me. But Babe please!!! I told you I need you to give me time. I'm not trying to hurt you babe, but I need to be alone right now. I will call you when I'm ready and I promised it would be before your birthday. Please just give me a second to figure things out, marrige and the future I have with you is a really big deal and I just need time. Please! Let me call you when I'm ready to talk please. Again I'm not trying to hurt you ...please don't hate me.