xkirrax

Was that me you are talking about? I'm the one who slept over my friend's house with my crush and wrestled with him. Fun fun fun. I've been over him for about six months though... You need to show them signs that you aren't straight if you want to see if they are gay or not. I can't give any specifics, because I myself have a lot of trouble with it too. It's so hard to show the guy ( who I think his gay, according to my gaydar, it's not just my desire ) that I'm interested in him without changing my personality. Say you want to tell them...you can't wait for them to come out to you, you have to input some clues too. Whether they be obvious ones or mysterious is up to you.

That was just one relationship! You can't judge what will happen with another guy just because that relationship with your first didn't turn out so well. There will be guys who are in your position, guys that have the same standards, and guys that will be as out as you are and will accept how comfortable you are with yourself (being out wise) It would be the same as if you had a bad (like the one with the guy) relationship with a girl...would you stop dating girls?...I suggest you don't say that your done with guys because ya never know...you could one day meet a great one and it just might be what you want/need. Also, it could be just like the first one...that's just how it goes. To give part of your heart, is to risk it all, but that's the only way you'll find true love. ( atleast that's what I like to think )

So I was spending the night over my friend's ( Max ) house..and he also invited one of my best friends Chris, and another kid, Mike. The entire night, I was questioning, is Mike gay? I think I jsut was hoping that he might be, and thats why I questioned him..but then Chris of course, just had to fart ( dude, it was freakin wicked ) So I got up, walked away crack'n up, and lifted my shirt up to hold it against my nose. And then I noticed, Mike staring at my abs. I thought that was kind of weird, so I go back to sit down. I look at him, and he quickly turns away. Now, that night was the first time i ever talked to the kid, even though we did go to school together. And Max is bisexual, he told me. Mike and Max are really good friends, Mike stays over Georges house a whole lot ( i know, its not good to assume things ) ( other events happened that could mean a lot of things, but i donot want to mention them here ) Now, for three years, I have not once talked to this kid before. And after that night, i always end up passing him in the hallway and find him looking at me. he is talking with his friend, but is lookign at me while walking. and when he looks at me and I look at him...AHHHH, so cool... yea, sorry about that...ANYWAY...he acts/thinks jsut like me and likes the exact same things as me...I want to get to know him better. I am very good with girls ( bi, more on the hetero side ) Any ideas on how to get a friendship going on? But, there jsut has been this weird connection/vibe between us...a very good one infact...should I get to knwo him through other friends first? I need to think of a clean, non-flirtacious way, to get him to know that I am interested in getting to know him.