A bit of a flirtation

This guy at church I've learned is a greeter, but he makes it a point to come up and speak to me. One time I blushed in his presence because he's cute. The female next to him an older lady also in choir with me pointed out to him that I seemed to like him.

However he's familiar to me and I figured out why. As a teen I slide off an icey road. There were no other cars it was dark, out of no where he appears. He said he saw my headlights. Figured I needed help. Offers me a ride to town. So I can call my parents. He was a very nice guy. Knew I was nervous about a ride with a stranger so explained he was the older brother of a classmate I knew of but wasn't friends with.

I know little about him, just that he's a good person.

Better yet, kick off conversation with him about that event! He did his part by approaching you and initiating contact, now it's your turn!

Why not ask him out?

Please stay as far away as possible and focus on your job and child. The ink is still drying on the divorce papers, no?

Hope everything is going in the right direction and working out.

Best to stay away from men for a while based on your history!

I'm not going to ask him out but if he asks me I'm going. I have no plans to stay away from men long term. I definitely won't push away a good one. And I wouldn't lie to him about my past as I have been lied to.

Now that I recall your previous posts....I agree with others.

Give it good 6 months to a year and keep distance from Ex and Opposite sex.

I'm not going to ask him out but if he asks me I'm going. I have no plans to stay away from men long term. I definitely won't push away a good one. And I wouldn't lie to him about my past as I have been lied to.

Nobody said stay away from men "long-term." But you're barely out of a really horrible situation. Why would you possibly want to date again?

Remember all the posts where people said you might be making a poor choice, and how you made it anyway? This could potentially be a repeat of that.