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    WOMEN ONLY: what does an orgasm feel like for you?

    Ok - I've been told that what I think is an orgasm isn't one.. it's just me on the verge of a really good one.

    So what does an orgasm feel like for you? (Women only)

    What I described to the person who told me I wasn't actually having one was that I tense up.. find it hard to keep breathing.. and something keeps building.. and its a nice feeling .. it feels like .. a really nice kind of tension between my legs .. and it keeps building and finally - the tension stops.. it throbs a little .. I can breath again and there's a definite feeling of stress-release or sexual frustration-release.

    But it's not like it rocks my world or anything. It doesn't make me scream or shake or convulse all over. Does anyone really do that?

    The advice I got was to not hold my breath but breathe normally and try to stay as relaxed as I could ... when I try that.. it takes me MUCH longer to get to that end point .. and I don't think it was much different when I did.

    I'm talking about self-pleasuring only .. I have never gotten there with normal sex and I suppose, I'm still so thrilled at being able to have normal sex that this is not a concern (and i know a lot of women can't with just penetration anyway).


    Edited to add: Oh and the entire process only takes me a couple of minutes most of the time. (When I do it differently.. forcing myself to stay relaxed and breath properly - it can take half an hour).

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    sounds like an orgasm to me

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    Sounds like one to me too! Sometimes they're little and sometimes they can blow your hat off

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    That does sound pretty accurate.

    it's been a LONG time since I had an orgasm but when it happens for me, I sweat and get this red "flush" over my body. I start to tremble a little too. Usually at the peak of it I tend to tense up for a short time. It does feel like a throbbing "build up" of tension in my nether region which then is "released" and I feel a period of calm and relief afterward.

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    Quote Originally Posted by superfox [Register to see the link]
    Sounds like one to me too! Sometimes they're little and sometimes they can blow your hat off
    Bugger.. I want one that blows my hat off. No fair!! lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fudgie [Register to see the link]
    That does sound pretty accurate.

    it's been a LONG time since I had an orgasm but when it happens for me, I sweat and get this red "flush" over my body. I start to tremble a little too. Usually at the peak of it I tend to tense up for a short time. It does feel like a throbbing "build up" of tension in my nether region which then is "released" and I feel a period of calm and relief afterward.
    Yeah.. I just never tremble. It's got to be really intense to be trembling right?

    I just don't understand how that sensation could possibly make anyone scream. I mean its great.. and I do it often - but .. it would never make me scream.. I feel like I'm missing out on the real deal..

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    And what kind of orgasm you are talking about? Are you talking about orgasm by masturbation or all body orgasms on generally? If other orgasms are allowed in this thread I can tell you.

    It is like an colorful rainbow with flashes and sun And yes it shakes my world, it gives euforia for days
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    I've had ones that were incredibly subtle -- that felt like a tendril of warm tingling travelling through my spine and out my crotch that made me weak in the legs. Those have been some of the most sublime (some of those were generated by fantasy/thoughts or kissing). Not to be underrated!

    The more obvious ones are like you describe -- a build-up or tightening, then a relaxation which makes me feel warm and kind of pulsing. I've felt like I had to pee before, and sometimes when I REALLY pee (not related to sexual stimulation) after a long time of holding it, that sense of relief approximates an orgasm for me. To give you a comparable gist.

    Orgasm is, physiologically, a tightening of muscle and when that tension is released, it feels good, so anything in that domain would classify, I think. It's more a question of degree.

    I've had the tightening involve my whole torso, and lead to trembling legs afterwards (which is kind of embarrassing actually, because they're sometimes twitching). But I kind of envy women who seem to be in "convulsions". I've never gotten to that point.

    As for screaming, I do that sometimes, but that could just be the drama queen in me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PonytailFairy [Register to see the link]
    And what kind of orgasm you are talking about? Are you talking about orgasm by masturbation or all body orgasms on generally? If other orgasms are allowed in this thread I can tell you.

    It is like an colorful rainbow with flashes and sun
    No just masturbation.. baby steps...

    Come on.. you are joking right.. a colourful rainbow with flashes and sun? You can't be sarcastic with me.. I'm too gullable for it

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    Quote Originally Posted by tiredofvampires [Register to see the link]
    I've had the tightening involve my whole torso, and lead to trembling legs afterwards. But I kind of envy women who seem to be in "convulsions". I've never gotten to that point.

    As for screaming, I do that sometimes, but that could just be the drama queen in me.
    Dam* - I'm envying you at this point!

    I've been doing this pretty regularly since I was reeeeaaaally young - and it's always the same. Sigh. I mean I'm glad I have what I have.. but I want more!! I want trembling at the very least. Hmm.. any tips on how you can make it more intense?

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