tsegay27

hello, i am new here myself. i'm glad that you have joined this forum, too. i love God. the path that i am following was once tread by the disciples of Jesus, whom i believe that He was the Christ and is God. by all means, i am willing to expand my perspective. i have done research into Hinduism and i grew up in an Islam environment for a part of my childhood. i would love to hear more about mediums and paganism from you, Shelli.

Two things: Religion does not always break up a relationship, people do. (People are not religion. People are not God. And God is not a religion, religion is not God (of course). It is a very difficult thing to just say that religion always breaks up a relationship. I'm sorry, Babes, but your perspective is very limited. Its like watching a sport and blaming the ENTIRE game on a few bad calls by the referees.) Do you want something that she cannot give to you now or in the future? (like sex or deep intamicy that she isn't sure she can give...) Obviously, "doing the right thing" is something that she values as a saved Christian or else she would not have put her faith before you. You must realize that faith and religion are two different things. Our emotions can lead us to do things that aren't the best for us quite often and in this case, you have to look into her best interest instead of yours. Sure, if you feel strongly about this girl, then I could see why you could go so far to not lose her. But who's best interest are you looking at? I think that you need to ask yourself: What is Love? Then, we can go from there. Hope this helps. ps. Religion is not a bad thing. It is the things that people do that are bad at times.

You're right, however I have a sour taste with relationships as it is, even though this my first serious one. I doubt I could get in another soon, possibly ever. Thanks for the support.

we have been together 2 years. at the moment, i live at home too.

I have a girlfriend who I can no longer be with. She does not know yet, but I have been dropping major hints. Subtle Hints that say: "I have fell out of love", and "that our relationship really sucks." (but not so bluntly.) On the other hand, my mom is attached to her (she has all sons, no daughters), and when my girlfriend had no job 9 months ago (and no $$ savings), she began living with her. Possible to break up with someone who lives with my family, even though she would still live there? (She wouldn't take it well either, very moody women, uncontrollable emotions -- both mom and girlfriend) It wont bother me, but I dont know where to begin with the break up. Advice anyone?