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It's great you're taking care of yourself and your physical and mental health. He's rather dismissive and insulting to you. It's an ego trip for him, unfortunately at your expense. Perhaps with your therapist you can learn more about yourself and dysfunctional relationships . Please keep in mind, even with therapy and medical treatment, if you're pouring poison in wounds with him you're in an uphill battle.

Unfortunately he seems like a rude ogling boor. Sorry this happened. This really has nothing to do with your level of attractiveness. He just has bad habits and bad manners on dates. Don't take it personally and work on your self respect and self image.

How long has she been divorced? Keep in mind, moving in within a year, especially with a child is rather hasty. Whose idea was that? She seems to have an impulsive streak and that explains some of her behavior with this ex as well as with you. Please take your time adjusting to the situation and don't get into a mental competition with this ex. It's eating you alive for no reason.

You're over investigating and driving the relationship. Including letting him move into your house. He's a student? How old is he and what does his financial situation look like? Please reconsider this move and engagement. Please Google "Peter Pan syndrome". He seems immature at best. Is he much younger than you? How is it he's a student and you're a homeowner? From your previous threads there were multiple issues all along even before you made the mistake of letting him move in.

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Have you tried getting a good profile and pics on quality relationship focused dating apps? That's one way to break the ice and start meeting women. You also have a lot of interests which is great, but consider joining some groups and clubs, taking some classes and courses and having fun broadening your social horizons. You'll see people regularly and become more relaxed talking to women. Try not to put this much pressure on yourself in finding a wife and mother for your children. This type of extreme pressure would scare women off. Try to relax into things and try not to oversell yourself.

Sorry this is happening. She seems unstable on multiple levels. Especially jealous and on the rebound. It's good she's leaving in September, then you won't have to deal with her and all her issues and "trauma". Frankly, she needs a therapist, not a BF.

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Sorry this happened. Whenever an ex contacts you it's for their own agenda. Lonely, bored, randy, just got dumped, on the rebound, etc. So it's a good thing you didn't consider it.

It's great you're on dating apps setting up dates. That will help get your mind off of mr hot player. It fills the void when you meet available decent guys. Try not to focus this much on just looks.

Sorry this is happening. Are you moving into her place? It's great you get along well and with her child. Hopefully she has strict court ordered custody/visitation and child support. This helps organize things and is best for the child if there was unstableness and abuse in the past. Don't worry about this guy. Please speak to her about better boundaries. Especially since you are moving in together.

Your only recourse is to ask him to move back in with his parents until he decides what he wants. That's the only leverage you have. Otherwise you're just begging and arguing about the future, his job/city, etc. Please don't move or sell your house. Reflect on his stance about it's over if he moves because he doesn't do LDRs. Please talk to trusted friends and family who have helped you along the way.

It seems like he prefers just coasting along for economic, household and sexual convenience.

Please don't make all these sacrifices for someone who is not committed to you. Why throw your life away on someone who wants to "experience" a new city. That in itself shows he wants to be a free agent and has some type of fear of missing out. He's being combative when you try to talk to him about your goals and needs and that's not a good sign.