Well I'll try to make this short. Well my ex-boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago from a 1 year and a half long relationship. It was not really mutual, as I had made the mistake to cry and beg the first week after breaking up. Later on, I told him I had agreed. (not really, but I just didn't want him to think of me as pathetic anymore) Well, It has been more than a month since our last time talking. He waited only a month to get into another relationship with another girl. This girl is someone he has just met a couple of months ago and he sees her on a daily basis at school, but they weren't really good friends til only a month before they started dating seriously. The new girl he is going out with had also gotten out of a long relationship. I was starting to think that they were both rebounding.
When we broke up he told me that he had feeling different lately but he still "loved" me as a best friend and will probably always have some sort of feelings for me in his heart. We were each others first serious relationship. I feel like he was rebounding because a few days after we broke up we were still talking and then he told me had feelings for another girl. It's like he transfered all the feelings he just had for me onto her. people that see them all the had told me that they spend so much time together and are already displaying public displays of affection. They seem to be moving much much more faster than how I was with him. It's like both of them (my ex boyfriend and his new girlfriend) are picking up where they both last left off in their previous relationships. Since, I think they are both rebounding off each other. They already have made out the first week they've been together, and kissed...but when I was with him our relationship progressed pretty slowly and we let our love and physical intimacy grow over months and weeks. I feel as though they are moving way too fast and seem to be all over each other already, in the honeymoon period.
This is this video that I had watched on youtube that gave out some information on rebound relationships and I was wondering if any of you guys had experienced a situation where your ex had already found someone else right away? I know I shouldn't care too much anymore and try to get over it, but I really do care and love him...and I miss him so much. We have known each other for years before we started dating, while he had known this girl for less than year...I want to know if I'll ever have a chance again..Please give me your thoughts on this situation.
Also if you were wondering the video I watched was called "how to win your ex back when they're seeing someone else!" on youtube by a relationship expert called Ashley Kay. I can't post the link on here for some reason, so maybe if you could search it up and tell me what you think of the infromation..if it seems realistic to any real life situations you know. Thank you everybody for reading this.