fatcat1999 Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 we just kissed a few times on our 2nd date, not even French kiss, and I noticed he got an erection, I can feel it when we're hugging and I can see it from outside. he didn't notice it. I'm not very experienced in romance and sex department... why is that? I'm a little bit embarrassed and afraid. Link to comment
Skillpadde Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Because he is sexually attracted to you. He can't help or control it, and may not've even been aware of it. Link to comment
Puckdog27 Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Ive gotten an erection just thinking about kissing. No big deal here, just a guy being a guy. Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 means he is attracted! that's not a bad thing. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Means that he likes you. I pretty much expect an erection out of my guy as soon as I enter the room. I like it like that. Link to comment
Imprecision Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Hahahaha, are you really that innocent? Link to comment
90_hour_sleep Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Means that he likes you. I pretty much expect an erection out of my guy as soon as I enter the room. I like it like that. lol...that's awesome. you must have some MASSIVE sex appeal. i'll admit...kissing is a sure fire way for me...but i've yet to encounter a woman who could just waltz into a room and magically make all the mean go sproing sproing sproing. maybe she's out there somewhere...waiting to set my loincloth on fire. i can't wait! thanks for the laugh debaser. Link to comment
arcadefire Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Haha, you must be smoking hot! Anyway, back on topic, I almost expect guys to get hard if there's making out, maybe dropping some items of clothing here and there... to me it's a given. Link to comment
FortunateOne Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 When I'm with a woman I really like I get an uncontrollable erection where ever we go. At first I would try to think about physics to make it go away but the ladies like it a lot since it shows you really like them. Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 what about when a guy DOESN'T get an erection? does that mean he doesn't like her, or maybe he is nervous or holding back for some reason? Link to comment
Kantriakhor Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Because he is sexually attracted to you. He can't help or control it, and may not've even been aware of it. He's aware of it, especially during a hug. Link to comment
fatcat1999 Posted September 2, 2009 Author Share Posted September 2, 2009 I didn't date a lot of guys before, but none of them had an erection just by kissing. is it possible that the guy is just really horny? it's funny to watch the guy walk away with his gun straight up, it somehow reminded me of a pregnant woman. glad it's night time or he'll be too embarrassed Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 I didn't date a lot of guys before, but none of them had an erection just by kissing. is it possible that the guy is just really horny? it's funny to watch the guy walk away with his gun straight up, it somehow reminded me of a pregnant woman. glad it's night time or he'll be too embarrassed A lot of guys are really good at hiding it. Link to comment
FortunateOne Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 A lot of guys are really good at hiding it. That's why I wear tight briefs and make sure hommie is pointing upward so he has room to grow without binding. This is another reason why we men have to shift the package around during a date so it is not too obvious. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 That's why I wear tight briefs and make sure hommie is pointing upward so he has room to grow without binding. This is another reason why we men have to shift the package around during a date so it is not too obvious. And guys can totally "shift the package" with such discreetion. It amazes me how some guys are like ninjas. Link to comment
FortunateOne Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 what about when a guy DOESN'T get an erection? does that mean he doesn't like her, or maybe he is nervous or holding back for some reason? If I were dating someone and I did not get an erection, then that means I am not attracted by her. ... But, in your case Annie, your intelligence and the fact you can belly dance is enought to get me hard on a date with you. Link to comment
FortunateOne Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 And guys can totally "shift the package" with such discreetion. It amazes me how some guys are like ninjas. Yes, we earn our blackbelt in this art form by the time we reach 20yo. Link to comment
Kantriakhor Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 I don't get erections like that, then again I have the sex drive of a dead fish, so. Link to comment
Bella20 Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 uh, yea, that's actually pretty hot Link to comment
Lonewing Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 so next time you notice and he doesn't...reach out and grab it! haha...jsut kidding, that might set him off! Link to comment
ScorpiGal83 Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Mmm, love it when I'm with a guy and we aren't even touching or kissing YET and he's got a massive erection. Feel like I just want to jump on it. Link to comment
furious Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Sorry to go off topic but if you are wearing pants with elasticity you can pull them down a bit and tuck it under and use your boxers or tuck in your shirt to cover up anything that might poke out. Surefire way of hiding it. Link to comment
Imprecision Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 I find that even when I'm only speaking with my girlfriend over the phone I often get an erection. She can be talking about the most mundane, boring subject, but something about the sound of a woman's voice... Link to comment
No One Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Technically, we can have erections simply because our hearts are still beating. Well, actually, I'm being honest. Of course, with those circumstances, it is VERY fair to say that you have engaged his interest in you from head to toe, mental to physical. Be gentle!! Link to comment
mr.mac Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 I'm a little bit embarrassed and afraid. Why are you afraid? Link to comment
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