im losted

[lonely_4_life]

ok im 17 and im bi im also a christan andits against it but im in love wiht 3 of my closeest frineds and my ex bf i have dated one of my frineds it lasted 5 months i loved her to death i finally told my friend that i was in love wiht her we cna only be frineds cuz she loves her ffrined the 3 girls im in love with 1 is bi and the other 2 are lez so im losted about it how do i tell them i love all 3 and not hurt them

[anggrace]

I don't think you should tell them. I think you should give it more time. If you tell all three, and they find out about it, you may come accross as insincere. How long have you known these girls?

[lonely_4_life]

i have know these girls for about a year now wiht 2 of them and one for 5 years i want to tell them one of them knows but she wants to be frineds she loves me to death and i love her so much

[anggrace]

You can still love these girls w/o acting on it. So the one girl loves you to death but just wants to be friends? Mabey the love youre feeling is just that. A love that you feel for close friends. I have male and female friends that I love. I think being at such a young age, you should keep it at that till you feel more clear about it. Theres no rush. Just give it time. Mabey then you'll have a better idea of which one, if any, to pursue on a next level. I certainly would not pursue all three. Someone would get hurt.

[lonely_4_life]

yes i know i love them to death they all know it the girls who loves me to deaht just wants to be frineds i also love my ex bf and those 3 girls yah im in no rush but im leaving to go in to the navy or army nexted summer so i want to tell them how i feel

[anggrace]

I think it would be okay to tell them you love them if you keep it at that. Expressing love and gratitude is never a bad thing. However I wouldn't tell all of them you are in love w/ them.

[lonely_4_life]

they all know im friends with them all its just do hard to chose who i love most

[Tigris]

You said you're going in the army or navy next year you could meet someone there?

 

If you have to say anything to the people you love right now just tell them you're all confused and don't know what you want anymore and leave it at that.

[anggrace]

You don't have to choose.

[lonely_4_life]

yes im going to the navy or army nexted summer im just not sure if i will meet a boy/girl who i love as much as them