HELP ME! (QUESTION4BOYS)

[Qtpie7]

Ok, so I have been going out with this guy I really like and I get to

hang-out with him and his friends a lot,k. Well, I know he really likes me but he wont even hold my hand. I thought maybe he was one of those guys that were shy to make the first move but I think thats the guys job.I really like him and I want him to be able to kiss me and stuff like that. What do I do??!!!!!!!????????

[CodeMaster7]

hm.. if he also likes you then i think you just have to catch him alone. ask him to meet him somewhere alone or go out with him into a pub or something and search a dark corner. that should do the job. HTH

 

best wishes, klaus

[Qtpie7]

Ok, thanx, but the thing is we have been alone before and he seems like he just doesn't know what to do. should I just make the first move? and if I did how?

[somedude]

i dont know your age or anything but are you his first gf? has he acted like this with other gf? maybe you should just go for it. it seems you have to make the first move or let him adjust

[97mkivtt]

It sounds to me like he's a little insecure. maybe afraid of rejection. i'm not quite sure why there's the idea that the guy should make the first move. i'd say jump right in.

[eterna2]

just go for it if u like him, just dun go so far.

u noe, it is very hard for most guys to know how a girl would react.

And some would need a mighty BIG hint and boost of courage, particularly if u are his first gf.

 

especially if u are his first. well, u can try dropping a VERY VERY obvious hint, before u take the initiative.

[Qtpie7]

8) Dear somedude,

no i'm not his first GF he is 17 and i am 15 and he has had GF's before.

I think i will just do something though cause I know 4 sure that he likes me. him and his friends are always taking me places.

thanx, go ahead and wright me back k.

[dazedpunk1607306446]

if he wont make the first move, then u have to. who cares what the traditional rules of love say, u do what u have to do, in love there are no rules really. get him alone and make the moves. or even better, talk to him about it. one of these will work

[jlentsch]

it sounds to me like he is shy, i was the same way. I needed girls to make the first move just because i was insecure about myself and the way people thought about me. You would be surprise with what might happen if you make the first move it might stay like that for a short time and then he will sweep you off your feet.