jlentsch

it sounds to me like he is shy, i was the same way. I needed girls to make the first move just because i was insecure about myself and the way people thought about me. You would be surprise with what might happen if you make the first move it might stay like that for a short time and then he will sweep you off your feet.

If i were you i would call her and tell her have a nice trip that way she has you in her head going into the trip. That is a pretty good in. Good Luck!!!!!

I don't want to lose my best friend. But i cannot just bury the feeling i have. That just hurts too much. I still think she would say no to me. She has never thought that people should be friends first. along time ago one of her other friends asker out and she said "I don't Date my friends, that would be to weird, we are just friends. what should i do?

I hear what you are going through i dont know your exact situation but maybe you should lay off of the weed for a while. I used to smoke every single day, failed all of my classes and ended up paying for school just to drop out. I now haven't smoked weed in over 4 years, and am doing great. I still havent gone back to school but i think it will be coming soon

I don't know what to do, i have been friend with this girl for 2 1/2 years now. She means everything to me. I have kind of had a crush on her for years but now it is like i love her. I had talked to my other friend about it a couple of months back and he went and told her. I really did not want him to. That made things really akward for a while because i was still trying to figure out whether i was going to tell her and just try to keep the friendship as is or tell her and try for an intimate relationship. I don't know if she is attracted to me. I am now at the point where i want to turn into something more. BUt i don't think she wants to be anything but friends with me. I talked to her and she said "it would be too weird". I think of it as we already know eachother like the back of our hands. and people always say the best relationships start with great friends ships. She has an 18 month old daugter that i am deeply in love with as well every chance i get i hold her and watch her so heather can get out for a couple hours. May I note that i am a very shy and insecure person and do not have much dating or relationship experience WHAT SHOULD I DO???? please write back