ever felt like you are a trainer!?

[numbhead]

ive been thinking about all this rubbish!

 

...and ive come to the conclusion that when you get dumped... it sucks! lol

 

i feel like i have been training my g/f for life,,,, i'm a teacher ye i'm a teacher!

 

she has used me as a lesson on life and moved on! it feels like ( i bet she feels like) she has moved on to a higher level, gone from school to college so to speak!

 

that kills

 

what does anyone else think... u agree?

[Biffy]

I understand where you're coming from but if my ex was a student she'd get an F at best.

 

I seriously don't think she learned a thing from our relationship/ break up.

 

More fool her though as I've learned so many precious life lessons and I wouldn't swap the experience (the dumping) for anything.

[brando]

What did you learn numbhead??? Try focusing on that.

[numbhead]

YE ive learnt a hell of a lot,,, still am... ha, its probably the baest thing that has ever happened to me,, i just dont know it yet.... i realised thati sacrificed a hell of a lot for her,,, she knew that..

 

its what i needed in my life because there were too many compromises on my part!

 

im using self help books at the minute to try sort my head out!! i still feel like a teacher tho! lol i dont know what grade my ex would get but id have to rethinkk about ever "givin her 1" lol

[tylercdurden2004]

its what i needed in my life because there were too many compromises on my part!

 

 

 

That is the most important thing you could learn. Next time stand up for yourself that is why she left. You were a doormat.

[JoeWho]

Everyone is a teacher and everyone is also a student.

[ImThatGirl]

Yep - Can relate.

 

My ex actually once asked me "well tell me everything I've done wrong - at least it will help me with relationships in the future."

 

I declined. Told him I'd helped him enough!

 

(Mind you I'd been having discussions with him for months begging for him to realize and make an effort to treat me better.)