OK I'm dating now but now what should I do next to take it to the next level?

[emit_remmus]

Do I just let things flow out naturally? Should I try to make the initiative to get more intimate? Can I get some ideas?

[Leonhart]

That was fast.

 

Uh... congrats. lol

 

As for what to do from here... take it slow, don't rush things and relax. Everything will follow its flow in its own time.

[emit_remmus]

This just became a thought to me, but what do I do if one girl I'm seeing catches me with another girl I'm seeing. This is a small town. I coincidentally come accross people I know all the time.

[Leonhart]

Well, crazy thought: You could just try dating one girl at time.

[emit_remmus]

I know but it just happened like that. I just wanted to try some more. I'm not even sure if they're dates since I didn't say the word date.

[Beec]

Well, try to make it so you don't take all of your dates to the most public of places. If you drive, how far is the closest town? And don't really worry abut it too much, if you are dealing with a first or second date. By the time you get to a fourth or fifth date, you need to choose, her alone or not her. And keep your dates as seeming like things that can be either a date or maybe not. It's fine to do.

 

As far as anything else, take your time with cranking things up.

[Leonhart]

I know but it just happened like that. I just wanted to try some more. I'm not even sure if they're dates since I didn't say the word date.

 

Well, they don't have to say 'date' for it to be one. A rose by any other name... you know.

[quietgrl]

Wow!!!!!emit,I blink my eyes and you have a girlfriend and wanting intimacy advice.

[Karhu]

intimacy comes after exclusivity. i think you first have to chose who you're seeing, and then it'll just naturally flow from there.

[omayra]

ask whom ever that person is if they would like to take things to the next level, maybe they like you also if they are into you they wont say no.

[chai714]

Skip the intimacy on the first date. But I do however, recommend kissing on first dates so you weed out the serial daters and uninterested ones.

 

Read her body language throughout each date - especially towards the end. If her body langauge is positive, bust a move. On subsequent dates, progress the level of intimacy as long as she feels comfortable. Usually, women are most comfortable kissing and doing more stuff in private.

[emit_remmus]

Ok, so I need to setup a good 2nd or 3rd date(which ever of us considered the last few meetings dates) where it could lead to more? Any ideas?

[ghost69]

i have never asked a woman to be exclusive. it just kind of happened.

[MushroomGod]

Ok, so I need to setup a good 2nd or 3rd date(which ever of us considered the last few meetings dates) where it could lead to more? Any ideas?

 

You should be able to find a venue through what you guys talked about on the first date or do something you enjoy. This isn't rocket science man. Let things take it's course, and make moves when appropriate. This'll take some trial and error. If you mess up, like you said you've created many options so it doesn't matter.

[ghost69]

go out and get a drink. you will both loosen up and just free flow talk.