justanotherperson Posted February 23, 2007 Author Share Posted February 23, 2007 I read the links in DD's sig. And I don't have any trouble at all to find women. And her advice seems like it works more for adults. I'm 16 years old. I need advice typical teens would use for my age. Adults would approach an adult way differnet than a teen would approach a teen. Am I makein any sense? Link to comment
MushroomGod Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 You're right she could be doing this and not knowing it. You don't have to tell her you don;t want to be friends anymore just shrink out of her life. don't answer when she calls and try to avoid her at school. Whewn you do Have to talk to her, be friendly but distant. Being her friend won't make her want to be with you. Maybe she will come to her senses and realize you're better than her BF. If that happens she will come find you. For now stop talking, calling, doing favors for her. Link to comment
justanotherperson Posted February 23, 2007 Author Share Posted February 23, 2007 thats a good idea. yeah ima try that and see wat she does. u sure this will work? Link to comment
MushroomGod Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 Nothing is certian. Don't sit around and wait either. Go out talk to other girls get dates and move on. Did you read DD's threads? Link to comment
justanotherperson Posted February 23, 2007 Author Share Posted February 23, 2007 o i talk to a lot of girls. It's hard to date when shes the only girl I wana date. Yeah I read dd's threads Link to comment
MushroomGod Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 What you have is called one itis. It's common. I understand she seems like she's perfect but there are loads of other girls that you'll find much better. Once you stop talking to her and get her completely out of your life you'll start to forget those feelings. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 a lot of people lust after the things that they don't have or can't attain. ......................................................................................................................................................................................... Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 o i talk to a lot of girls. It's hard to date when shes the only girl I wana date. Yeah I read dd's threads I'm not a "her", I'm a "he" brutha. And my threads are for teens as well, maybe especially teens. Maybe not so much about meeting a person for a cup of coffee, but as far as how the situation works, it is 100% for teens as much as it is for adults. What did you have questions regarding? Link to comment
MushroomGod Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 I'm not a "her", I'm a "he" brutha. And my threads are for teens as well, maybe especially teens. Maybe not so much about meeting a person for a cup of coffee, but as far as how the situation works, it is 100% for teens as much as it is for adults. What did you have questions regarding? If any thing they are better for teens. Young guys have no experience and make these mistakes more than older guys. At least in my personal experience and those of some of my close friends. Link to comment
justanotherperson Posted February 25, 2007 Author Share Posted February 25, 2007 Oh, I got a question. How come every time she thinks im datein my ex, she gets all pissed off at me? Like she would say "if you date her again then im not gonna talk to you for a while". What's up with that? Kayla is 15 with 15 year old normal maturity. So put urself in her prospective ( sp? ). Why would she act dat way? Link to comment
MushroomGod Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Oh, I got a question. How come every time she thinks im datein my ex, she gets all pissed off at me? Like she would say "if you date her again then im not gonna talk to you for a while". What's up with that? Kayla is 15 with 15 year old normal maturity. So put urself in her prospective ( sp? ). Why would she act dat way? Ok I'm in her shoes... "If he goes back to hiis ex, or finds another girlfriend then he won't be there for me anymore and I'll have no one to boost my ego." Her saying this and blocking your happiness is very selfish. Link to comment
Karhu Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 exactly, she's got her hooks into you and is pulling your strings like a puppet, she likes having her puppet, and she is scared that your ex or any other interest will cut the strings. move on and be happy with your life Link to comment
justanotherperson Posted February 26, 2007 Author Share Posted February 26, 2007 Ohh. Well I found this new girl. Her name is Jennifer, I used to like her in the past, but Kayla got in and sorta grabbed my attention. I like this girl a lot. We've been talking with eachother for the past couple days. I'm not sure if she feels the same way about me though. I used to be really closer to her bout a month ago but we sorta lost touch with eachother. In that time she said my personality made me cute ( whatever that means, but ill take it!! lol ). Wat should i do? And helpful advice? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 lost touch? how do you lose touch within a month? ......................................................................................................................................................................................... Link to comment
MushroomGod Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 Ohh. Well I found this new girl. Her name is Jennifer, I used to like her in the past, but Kayla got in and sorta grabbed my attention. I like this girl a lot. We've been talking with eachother for the past couple days. I'm not sure if she feels the same way about me though. I used to be really closer to her bout a month ago but we sorta lost touch with eachother. In that time she said my personality made me cute ( whatever that means, but ill take it!! lol ). Wat should i do? And helpful advice? If you like her, ask her out waste no time. Tease her and be fun. Link to comment
justanotherperson Posted March 1, 2007 Author Share Posted March 1, 2007 Ok, see i'm still confused on wheather Kayla likes me or not. This is really bothering me. I had this girl before her on my myspace and she messaged me saying "umm y u have her before me on ur myspace? im closer to u. duhh!!". I was like "well ur always to busy to talk to me and ur busy with that crap * * * * * boyfriend".. So wats up with that. Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 She's not interested brutha. Link to comment
MushroomGod Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 She's not interested brutha. We've been over this for 5 pages, not interested. Link to comment
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