If he/she is not into you,why do they keep coming back?

[Skippy]

If he/she is not into you, why do they keep coming back?

[Siriana]

For sex.

To avoid being alone before finding someone else.

Because they're selfish jerks.

[SkylinesTurnstiles]

For sex..

 

 

Thats so true

[Honey Pumpkin]

If he/she is not into you, why do they keep coming back?

 

I think some people like having lots of 'fall-back' positions, and so they do just enough to keep you interested, without actually being there for you.

 

Maybe it's that you're not really what they want, but you'll do until something better comes along.

 

Having said that, how do you know that s/he is not that into you??? Just a thought...

[Skippy]

because they may not be there for you emotionally or phyically

because you are on their time and they are not on your time.

Because you are hoping and hoping, but you know they aren't giving anything more.

[Anna.]

b/c it's comfortable and its feels good (for them) to know they still can...

[Daligal83]

I think part of it is because they want you to have feelings for them, but don't actually want you to be with them. So they do the bare minimum to make sure those feelings don't go away on your part but have zero intention of it going any further. I also agree with the fallback theory.