Parsley Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 Right - I really didn't expect this at all. I got a text from my ex (dumper) about an hour ago...I'll type them out, it's just easier. Him "Are you awake?" Me "Yes" Him "Are you ok? xx" Me "In general or right now?" Him "In general. I miss you stephamy xx" (stephamy is his pet name for me) Me "I'm fine. I don't know what else to say" Him "Oh. you don't miss me or anything?? xx" Me "I don't know if I do. Some days i'm fine, others I don't think of anything else" Then he rang me. I have a strong feeling he'd had at least a couple of drinks. The whole conversation was mostly him asking how I was, what I'd been up to, did I have a job yet, how is my nephew...with me saying the bare minimum. Then he asked if I had a good New Year. He broke up with me 4 days before New Year. I said it was alright, I spent it with my siblings. "Did you get really drunk?" "No - that's why I went to their's. I didn't want to get drunk" "Why not?" "I thought it would be the best idea" There was a pause, and he asked if I hated him. I said a little. He asked on a scale of 1-7, and I said 2/3. He seemed impressed by that. He asked me to go and see him at this pub tomorrow, I just said no. He asked why, I said I don't have any money and my family are down. I wish I'd been a bit stronger with that, but I was in shock and trying not to cry the whole time. He said he would ring me tomorrow, then said he was going to bed, and asked me to text him something. When we were together and spoke on the phone before going to sleep, he'd always say "Text me something lovely". I just said bye, and hung up. Then whilst I was finding out who was awake of my friends to talk to, he sent me another text. "Sorry if I upset you sweetie. I miss you. Sleep tight xxx" I don't know what to do. I just had an hour long conversation with one of my best friends, mostly her telling me to stay strong and not to anything stupid, remember how much he hurt me, and remember how much stuff he has done whilst drunk that he has regretted. Please...help. I don't know what to do, I'm scared that I won't be able to stop myself forgiving him and that I'll end up getting hurt again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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