Seeing ex for first time in 3 months - help!!!

[Cindersam]

My ex finally returned my phone call and has agreed to meet with me next week. I have not seen him in 3 months and have only spoken to him twice since the break up so there has been plenty of NC and time to heal.

 

Of course like most of you I am hopng that at some point in time there may be a reconciliation. If nothing less I think it will provide closure but as I said I would prefer a second chance.

 

What is the best way for me to handle this so it might lead in the direction I am hoping?

[Reluctant Rebuilder]

All you can do is be up front, honest and no games. No amount of willing or wanting is going to change someone's mind. Best you can hope for is that they want the same thing and go from there.

[Hope75]

I agree with RR. Try to relax and be yourself, and don't put any pressure on him or give him any direct questions.

 

Any idea why now, after 3 months, he agreed to meet with you?

 

Did he initiate the breakup? Why?

[rsxguy520]

exactly what Reluctant Rebuilder said. lay it all out on the table. no games! none, nada. its either yes or no. nothing more. if yes, awesome, if not, then at least you had time to heal and now completely move on with yourself.