joiseygrl Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 How common is it for a 28 year old, very sexually experienced guy to get a hard-on every time he kisses a specific woman? I'm asking because this guy I'm seeing told me the other night, "Every time I kiss you, I get a hard-on." It sounded like it wasn't a normal occurrence for him. I would think that by 28 with a bit of experience under his belt (no pun intended!) a guy wouldn't get hard from just a good-nite kiss. Is this something that happens a lot? Should I take it as a compliment? Link to comment
Dako Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 You make it sound like a bad thing! He must be really attracted to you. Link to comment
FCTex Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 Sure, I've gotten harder than a diamond in an ice storm after a kiss.. It just depends on whats going on, and everything. Take it as a compliment, but also take it as, he trying to hint something as well.. Link to comment
bexcelant Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 Hell I"m 40 and it still happens. LOL Link to comment
Kevin T Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 Hell I"m 40 and it still happens. LOL lol I want to see someone say that when they're 80! Link to comment
Boughs Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 I sometimes get a hard-on from kissing. Really depends on how attractive a girl is. He could also claim to be experienced but isn't at all.. and just tried to use it as a line of sorts. Link to comment
MacGyverRI Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 "Is this something that happens a lot? Should I take it as a compliment?" Yes and yes "I would think that by 28 with a bit of experience under his belt (no pun intended!) a guy wouldn't get hard from just a good-nite kiss." I'm 53 and it still happens Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 It is probably just the way he is Link to comment
candy604 Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 ha it is normal, he is definitely attracted to you Link to comment
sddeaston Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 Is this a bad thing? For me, its very normal and only with someone I am really into. Link to comment
joiseygrl Posted January 30, 2007 Author Share Posted January 30, 2007 I never thought it was a BAD thing. And I know he's very experienced. (When we used to fool around 10 years ago he was experienced back then.) I just wondered if most guys get that turned on by just as kiss. I was thinking he was pretty into me if he got that turned on from a simple kiss (no petting or grinding). I've had my share of kisses and most of the guys didn't get hard until the kiss got deeper and the groping started. Link to comment
candy604 Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 heh yah, sometimes guys can just get hard holding a girl's hand or even a hug. depends..i think it's normal. He's probably thinking of something more than a kiss when he kisses you. Link to comment
bexcelant Posted January 31, 2007 Share Posted January 31, 2007 hah, guys can get that way just in close proximety or thinking about it. That's when you start doing mathematical formulas in your head. Although by and large, I've found this does not actually help. LOL Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted January 31, 2007 Share Posted January 31, 2007 I don't think it's out of the ordinary. Link to comment
artboysean Posted January 31, 2007 Share Posted January 31, 2007 I would say he is attracted, or else it wouldnt happen. I read a similar post then follow up on another site. My question is how well do you know him? How long have you been dating? Alot of times as I see it guys will say things like that to bring attention to there part. In hopes bringing attention to it means someone will touch it. You said he is very experienced. He is experienced for a reason. I have a friend who used to say the same thing... suprisingly it worked! Girls got flattered, and for him he was just aroused because he got alot of action, and was a horney guy... So my opinion, he could just be another horney dude trying to get his junk handled, or he could be sincere. Link to comment
FCTex Posted January 31, 2007 Share Posted January 31, 2007 I sorta agree with the last statement.. My girlfriend laughs because I joke about my junk and say negative things about it.. She laughs because I honestly don't think that, since I have no problem being naked, and others seeing me if I was exposed. She says it kinda goes with the addage, that the guy who thinks it's penis is the biggest tries to show it to all the women to prove it. Link to comment
Hootz Posted February 2, 2007 Share Posted February 2, 2007 I have been married to my wife for 8 years, and sometimes I get a hard-on when she kisses me, if I'm feeling extremely in love with her at a certain point in time, it will just take a grab of the arm, or a rub on the back when she walks past me. It is a huge turn-on to know tat someone is in love with you. Enjoy it, this guy is into you! Link to comment
EvaGina Posted February 2, 2007 Share Posted February 2, 2007 I just mention needed to buy new stockings on my lunchbreak, and my bf has to sit down. its good, it means he is thinking about you... that he isnt just giving you hollow kisses Link to comment
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