artboysean

so tuff... i try getting up with her flirting etc, but she just shrugs me off.

nah she thinks she looks good... I dont get it.. you think she would understand that marriage is a commitment to eachother... she is commited to fulfilling my needs... now i am not, i need sex every day guy, but exciting sex a couple of times a week... great!~

I would say he is attracted, or else it wouldnt happen. I read a similar post then follow up on another site. My question is how well do you know him? How long have you been dating? Alot of times as I see it guys will say things like that to bring attention to there part. In hopes bringing attention to it means someone will touch it. You said he is very experienced. He is experienced for a reason. I have a friend who used to say the same thing... suprisingly it worked! Girls got flattered, and for him he was just aroused because he got alot of action, and was a horney guy... So my opinion, he could just be another horney dude trying to get his junk handled, or he could be sincere.

The problem as i see it though is that there will always be things taking presenence and causing stress in our lives... When her schooling is done, then it will be kids... then something else. Our parents getting old, etc, etc. It went from, when we have our own place... we don't have privacy, to our house is still under construction, to i am tired... I work hard all day then do school work... you need to relax... Like tonight. I asked her if she wants to have date night. And she said, well i am busy tonight. I have alot to do. After work I am getting my nails done, then I have to goto the grocery store, then I have to do school work, then tonight i have to wash and blow out my hair.... I mean come on

I am newly married as of October. I have been with the woman I am married to for just over 4 yrs. When we started dating sex was adventurous, fun, and frequent. As our relationship went on the sex slowed down, due to situations we were in. We didnt necessarily have privacy. We got married, and I figured it would pick up, having our own place and all. But at first our house was being renovated so it was her excuse for lack of libido. "I don't feel sexy in this house... Its a construction site, and dirty!" Our house is since been finished. Now we maybe have sex once a week. It is the same every time. She doesnt really move, just kinda lays there, and doesnt seem as though she is really into it! We are definitely in love so there isnt any issues that I am not making her happy, because we are very happy. I bring it up and she says she is tired because she worked hard all day. Or she has online college stuff to do, and that stresses her out. To be honest it really bothers me. I try and talk to her about it, and she throws the "you dont know how stressed out I am with.... work/school.. Or trys making it seem as though I am pestering her, Like, oh this conversation again... She doesnt seem as though she is interested. I dont know what to do to make things better, and how to get the sex going good again.. Please advise!