devilsadvocate Posted January 20, 2007 Share Posted January 20, 2007 I am 19 I have met a very nice lady but i have found out she is 42 possibly married (dont think she is) tell me plz is it ok for me to date her Link to comment
devilsadvocate Posted January 20, 2007 Author Share Posted January 20, 2007 found out she is not married Link to comment
Jeffrey2095 Posted January 20, 2007 Share Posted January 20, 2007 Hello, Maybe she is young at 42, and you are a little mature at 19. I think it is worth a try, why not? I once dated a woman 15 years my senior, and she was more fun to be around in some ways than 20 and 30 somethings. One of my best friends is married to a gorgeous lady who is 12 years older than him. If you two are in love... Peace, and best wishes Jeffrey Link to comment
anggrace Posted January 20, 2007 Share Posted January 20, 2007 How do you think you might feel about her when she is 62 and you are 39? I guess another concern for me would be, why is she even looking at 19 year olds? How did you guy meet and how has she come on to you? Link to comment
devilsadvocate Posted January 20, 2007 Author Share Posted January 20, 2007 we met on the net and we kinda made a pass at each other Link to comment
robowarrior Posted January 20, 2007 Share Posted January 20, 2007 Although its possible that you two can get to be together, its going to have people staring at you, if you can live with that, and if you find out that she isn't crazy in the head, then you could give it a shot. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted January 20, 2007 Share Posted January 20, 2007 Did you meet on a dating site? I think you should tread very carefully. As always! But especially when it has to do with online meetings (you have no way to verify if what she says is true, or if she even is who she says). Personally I think this whole thing is too risky to be worth your time. But if you pursue it, be very careful. The whole thing sounds seedy IMO, to tell the truth. Not just the age differences but the whole deal. Link to comment
devilsadvocate Posted January 20, 2007 Author Share Posted January 20, 2007 i think a picture she sent me can definitely verify that she is who she says she is Link to comment
Siriana Posted January 20, 2007 Share Posted January 20, 2007 No. i think it's a bad idea. Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 20, 2007 Share Posted January 20, 2007 i think a picture she sent me can definitely verify that she is who she says she is LOL. no. they could have just sent you a photo of their sister or their high school teacher. Anyway, if you are intrigued, then meet up for coffee during the daytime. be safe. if she is who she says she is, then go ahead and make a second date. there is quite an age gap between you, so I'm not sure how compatible you two would be. But then again, you never know. the whole "Demi Moore/Ashton Kutcher" thing is very "in" right now. PS - If you were a 19 year old girl asking to meet up with a 42 year old man, I would say NO WAY!!! I think a 42 year old man would try to take advantage of a 19 year old female. And this woman may try to take advantage of you too, just something to keep in mind.... Link to comment
Bethany Posted January 20, 2007 Share Posted January 20, 2007 Don't do it. She is probably divorced and is now looking for a companion, someone to have fun with and quite probably has had children probably who are your age, if not older. You, however will be looking for a long term partner soon, someone to fall in love with, buy a home together, have children with, which means even if you do hit it off, one of you in the end will not get what they are looking for. Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 20, 2007 Share Posted January 20, 2007 Don't do it. She is probably divorced and is now looking for a companion, someone to have fun with and quite probably has had children probably who are your age, if not older. You, however will be looking for a long term partner soon, someone to fall in love with, buy a home together, have children with, which means even if you do hit it off, one of you in the end will not get what they are looking for. Most 19 year old guys I know are also looking for a bit of fun.... not for a mortgage and kids..... Link to comment
devilsadvocate Posted January 24, 2007 Author Share Posted January 24, 2007 well does anyone think it is a good idea to meet her in a public place is that the safest option Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 well, you are an adult now so it is your decision. if you do meet her, yes, it should be in public, at a busy coffee shop. don't tell her where you live or work, and don't have her drive you home. if you still get a good vibe from her, keep getting to know her. Link to comment
devilsadvocate Posted January 24, 2007 Author Share Posted January 24, 2007 ok well i am meeting her this saturday Link to comment
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