TiredMan Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Megno, How about forcing the passion from your end rather than waiting on the guy to do it? Link to comment
megno07 Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 I have tried to force the passion on my side....I do nothing but put myself out there for him....things have got a lil better I just guess I need to much. Link to comment
TiredMan Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 I have tried to force the passion on my side....I do nothing but put myself out there for him....things have got a lil better I just guess I need to much. What do you mean "put myself out there for him?" Link to comment
Cat Lover Posted January 2, 2007 Author Share Posted January 2, 2007 Thanks for all the good advice and I will take all of it to heart. I am also going to try and not be around and so available all the time. Put some distance between us. I've always heard that absense makes the heart go fonder. I tried to give my man oral sex last night and he once again turned it down he said he was too tired. What man turns down a good BJ? I have been completely shaven down there for years and always wear sexy panties to bed and walk around naked all the time and still not interest? What gives? I'm going to play hard to get for a while and make him want me! Link to comment
TiredMan Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 What man turns down a good BJ? I have been completely shaven down there for years and always wear sexy panties to bed and walk around naked all the time and still not interest? What gives? Men are people not sex animals. We aren't allowed to not be in the mood? Saying "what man turns down a good bj?" is stereotyping men. This is all without getting into what is "good" and what women think is "good". The second part about shaving and all that is nice and all but again, it's as if you expect men to be like sex craved animals. Just my two cents on this. Link to comment
Cat Lover Posted January 2, 2007 Author Share Posted January 2, 2007 You do have to admit that men do think about sex more than women. I guess you are right I should not stereo-type all men as sex animals I'm just upset that mine does not want sex! Link to comment
TiredMan Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 You do have to admit that men do think about sex more than women. I guess you are right I should not stereo-type all men as sex animals I'm just upset that mine does not want sex! But you are stereotyping by even saying men do think about sex more than women. It would be like me saying "you have to admit most women are golddiggers" Link to comment
megno07 Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Maybe we are a little stereotypical of men sometimes....I would think that any red blooded man would want to attack a woman who was shaven and walks around naked and or in sexy underwear. But then again maybe if you were to cover up, let it grow out and not allow him to see you naked, that maybe it would cause him to want you more. Sometimes I think when you are around eachother for so long that it becomes a little to comfortable, and sometimes you become more like roomates then lovers. I mean they most of the time see everything and know everything there is to know so it's kind of like the mystery is gone. So maybe changing the way he views you might help. Link to comment
TiredMan Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Maybe we are a little stereotypical of men sometimes....I would think that any red blooded man would want to attack a woman who was shaven and walks around naked and or in sexy underwear. Statements like that or even thinking like that just pour more into the stereotype. Link to comment
Cat Lover Posted January 3, 2007 Author Share Posted January 3, 2007 We women are not trying to put men down it's just that men in general think about sex more than women do. Men watch and look at more porn than we do and men go to strip clubs more than we do etc. Women are more emotional when it comes to sex where as men are more physical and are more about getting their "rocks off" where as for me right now I would not even care if I climaxed I just want to feel that closeness to my boyfriend that comes with sex. Women in general are more in touch with their feelings and have a strong emotional connection when it comes to sex. Sorry to bash men was not trying to just needed to vent a little! Link to comment
TiredMan Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 One can follow those generalities much further too. If men think about sex more than women do in general, as you said, would you also say that women use sex to get things they want in general as well? Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 let's stay on the original topic please! Link to comment
Cat Lover Posted January 4, 2007 Author Share Posted January 4, 2007 Ok original topic any ideas on how to get him to want me again? I'm all ears. Link to comment
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