is it real?

[second_opinion]

What is love? My ex had been after me for months and months, he did everything for me, he went out if his way for me. I know he still adores me and still wants to be with me, however I dont know If I do. There are times were I love him so much and other times where he drives me insane!

 

Has anyone been in this situation before?

 

Should I tell him the things he does that drive me insane, and try and make it work?

 

How do you know its real love? I know the guy repects me because he doesnt do anything I dont want to, if I say no he will ask why and sook alittle but he quickly gets over it.

[Dako]

If you have to ask a forum what love is, maybe you just aren't in love.

It hits me like ton of bricks and there's no doubt.

[second_opinion]

maybe your right, maybe your wrong. Ive been messed around with in the past for so long, basically all my exs have played with my mind, im just really cautious and alert, I dont want history to make a repeat.

[itsallgrand]

 

Should I tell him the things he does that drive me insane, and try and make it work?

 

 

Why?

 

I'm being serious.

 

He's your ex. Probably for good reasons.

 

Why not just drop it. Leave it. Move on while you still do have caring for him.

 

Why fight for something you are not even sure exists or not? There is no marriage or kids to think of. Right?

[second_opinion]

His my ex because my parents, well, my mother especially, dont like him. Thats the main reason, the other is the small things he does that annoy me. My dad said Im looking for someone who doesnt exist, he said that Im very picky with men and shouldnt be because no one is perfect, not even me.