ryan1987 Posted December 5, 2006 Share Posted December 5, 2006 hey you guys!!! its been a long time sice i expressed myself and my story on here!!! i have been parted from my gf for about 8 months!! no contact for about 6!! and i am doing so well!!!! it would have been our 2 year annaversy on the 7th of december! and i guess shes been thinking of me because she emailed me yesterday!! saying that its been so long! how u been etc etc! then today she asked for my phone number and has been texting me alot!! i guess this NC really does work if you have a little patience right now im just going to remain friendly! feel the water before i jump in and if a realtionship comes out of it good Link to comment
robowarrior Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 ehm but this is in the forum getting back together, does that mean your going back to her even tho the things that made you break up in the first place aren't resolved? Sorry but in my opinion once you break you never get back, because i've never like lightswitch relationships on off on off. So unless the problems are solved, i see no reason why you should get back to this woman. Link to comment
ryan1987 Posted December 6, 2006 Author Share Posted December 6, 2006 i didnt say their was the option to go back to this woman yet! im just saying that NC helped me so much and that its put me in the power position i will admit i think she likes me again, simply for the fact she came out of the blue, txt me all last night, emailed me, and talked about going to the cinema,! but as i said im not jumping into anything!!!! it needs to move slow!! foundation matters the most when it comes to building something strong!! sure their are issues that need adressed but not yet!! Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 Don't cha love the power of NC? I know I do... Welcome back ryan1987! SuperDave71 Link to comment
ryan1987 Posted December 6, 2006 Author Share Posted December 6, 2006 to be honest i thought this NC idea in the beginning was a bad idea! i didnt see hwo it would get me "back together" with my ex, but after a while i reailsed its not about my ex! its about me! and anything else that comes is just a bonus!! but it looks like NC has worked the way i wanted it to from the beginning so yea! YA GOTSTA LOVE NC (H) lol thanks superdave !! Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 Ryan is now an NC spokesperson!!!! WOO HOOO!!!! -SuperDave71 Link to comment
ryan1987 Posted December 6, 2006 Author Share Posted December 6, 2006 ill leave the NC spokesperson job to you! your much better !! WOOOOHOOOO lol! Link to comment
ryan1987 Posted December 6, 2006 Author Share Posted December 6, 2006 oh yea guys! how do you think i should go about this contact now? now that shes showing slight intrest in me! Link to comment
mikeca Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 well what worked for me, was almost like courting a new relationship...start with small conversations work your way up to..lets say the movies..etc Link to comment
ryan1987 Posted December 7, 2006 Author Share Posted December 7, 2006 Thank you Mike i was thinking of that answer before you said it anyone got anyother advice! that they think may be better! thanks Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Ryan, DINNER....Take her out..Or even better...COOK for her. Women love it when men cook for them!! Dinner allows you to talk rather than just sit. Now granted, the movies are great because you can go grab dessert/coffee after and talk about the film. I like the dinner thing because you can sit accross from her, see her, her actions and reactions and base the rest of the evening on what YOU KNOW. Take THAT to the Bank!! Boooo YA! ha ha ha Your Friend, SuperDave71 Link to comment
ironpumper Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 I'm jealous....BUT this post does offer HOPE!!!! Link to comment
ryan1987 Posted December 7, 2006 Author Share Posted December 7, 2006 hehe nice one super dave!! dont be jelious iron pump! if uve lost a love! plz plz believe in the NC! it puts you in a win win situation! nothing is better just read superdaves posts! he is a relationship veteran by the sounds of things whooop whoop Link to comment
dnozzle Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 Personally, I wouldn't do it. If she can stay away this long then she is pretty cold-hearted and I would not trust her by letting her back in. I would move on to something else. Link to comment
silentalways Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 well, on my first date with my ex we went to see a play about 'death' so if i was to do something 'illusionary and delusional' such as that, i would take her to see a play about 'life' better storyline i think and no foreshadowing of dark clouds ahead - wink Link to comment
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