I_KicKed_keNNedy Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 Lately my GF and I have been having a little problem when we make love. After a while (dunno, somewhere around 20 minutes or so) sex becomes painful for her and we have to stop. I've noticed that she dries out a little at around this time. Recommendations? Should we relube? Is there a health concern? She used to be able to go for a lot longer before. Link to comment
luvursmile Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 Sounds like relubing should do it. It happens sometimes. Does it happen after she already "done"? Link to comment
I_KicKed_keNNedy Posted November 15, 2006 Author Share Posted November 15, 2006 No, quite the opposite. When she "goes" things get very damp, but in the event of that we have to stop too because she says its too sensitive and we have to wait a few minutes to start again. Link to comment
luvursmile Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 hmmm, i dont think theres a health issue there, but have her check it out anyways. Sometimes, if it lasts too long before the woman is "done" then that happens, I know its happened to me. Try relubing & see if that works. Or maybe she just wasnt damp enough from the beginning. Link to comment
annie24 Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 this was a topic in the sex advice column "Savage Love" by Dan Savage. I'm sorry I can't find the article for you. The advice dan gave another man in your position is to have lots and lots of foreplay, to do all sorts of other things.... (he had quite an extensive list!) and then when you are getting within 20 minutes of coming, then enter her. Because you have 20 minutes, so work around that time frame! definitely, try relubing, or try finding a position that is more comfortable for her. and if she hasn't been to the doctor recently, she should go for her annual checkup. Link to comment
luvursmile Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 Yes! More foreplay! Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 Yes, foreplay and if you need it, KY. The warming kind is wonderful Link to comment
I_KicKed_keNNedy Posted November 15, 2006 Author Share Posted November 15, 2006 definitely, try relubing, or try finding a position that is more comfortable for her. Which brings me to another point. It seems like our range of motion is pretty limited. Unless she is facing me and at an angle of 45 degrees or less (maybe 60, I'm guessing), she complains it hurts. Could this be a sign of something wrong with her? Something incompatable with us? Link to comment
annie24 Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 hm. has she been to the gyno? maybe she has a tilted uterus? she should have a full check. Link to comment
vandgsmom Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 There could be a whole range of things that could be causing this if you wanted to get into all the troubling possibilities, but the most easy to solve is the lube and foreplay issue... If that dosen't immediately solve it, take EVERYONES advice and get her her annual check up done... health problems are better solved sooner than later. Link to comment
Corvette Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 you might be too big for her Link to comment
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