girlie219 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 I went out for a drink with a guy this evening, i thought we seemed to get on really well..the drink lasted about 2 and three quarter hours so we had plenty to talk about! He gave me a lift home at the end of the night and suggested when to meet up again, but the thing is he didn't attempt to kiss me. Is this a good or a bad sign? Thanks Link to comment
annie24 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 i think it's fine. have had many good first dates with men with no kiss. if anything i don't really feel comfortable kissing on the first date. did he ask you out for a second date? he could have just been trying to be a gentleman. Link to comment
girlie219 Posted October 22, 2006 Author Share Posted October 22, 2006 yes he did he said we could go to the cinema next week Link to comment
annie24 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 ok, nothing to worry about Link to comment
girlie219 Posted October 22, 2006 Author Share Posted October 22, 2006 i guess maybe it means he likes me more if he didnt kiss me...i dunno Link to comment
annie24 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 don't over analyze it. just see what happens. Link to comment
New_Horizons Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 Perhaps he's just shy and decided to err on the side of caution. Why don't you kiss him if you want it? I don't see why the guy should initiate everything. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 don't over analyze it. just see what happens. This should be my new sig line. Listen to Annie! Link to comment
robowarrior Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 Its simple, nowadays if a guy even touches a girl they could already scream murder,rape and fire, so modern guys can be under a lot of pressure not to make the first move, it would be nice if you would try to show some initiative. If you want to kiss you could try to initiate something. Link to comment
annie24 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 This should be my new sig line. Listen to Annie! oh lol. i soooo tend to overanalyze things, but really, there is no need. over the next few weeks with this guy, i think you'll find out how he feels about you, so there's no need to worry. and like the guys said, you could also give him a bit of a "green light", so to speak. like maybe hold his hand or kiss his cheek, if the time feels right. Link to comment
Lion-Guy Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 Don't worry if he doesn't kiss you right away. I am sure he is into you. See if there is any touching next date (hair, holds you hand, etc.). It will be easier since you guys are going to a movie you said. Link to comment
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