iluvtorace4786 Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 There is this girl that I work with and me and her have always gotten along really well since the first day she has started. We flirt at work all the time and everything seems good. I took her out to dinner and it was very nice and when I dropped here off we kissed and said goodnight. So I'm pretty sure that she likes me, here is the catch, she is always talking about how she has been with a lot of guys (15 to be exact) and talks a lot about her ex's. She also said to me last night that if her ex wanted to take her back that she would go back with him. That was something that I really didnt want to hear because I really like this girl. What do you guys think I should do? Link to comment
dr.idunno Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 I would let this one go. She's not over her ex and by telling you this over and over and over again, I think thats very disrespectful. Dont let women do this to you...seriously...I would not think twice. Link to comment
PinkValiant Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 I think she's trying to make you jealous :S Link to comment
bhzmafia Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 I think she's trying to make you jealous :S ^^^ If you dont like it, tease her about it. Something like: "Wow Im so proud you have had had a few boyfriends before, but cant you think of something more relevant to talk about?" Im sure you can think of something better... Link to comment
Tigris Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 Maybe she was trying to see if you would be jealous? If you like her ask her out again. Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 here is the catch, she is always talking about how she has been with a lot of guys (15 to be exact) and talks a lot about her ex's. She also said to me last night that if her ex wanted to take her back that she would go back with him. That was something that I really didnt want to hear because I really like this girl. What do you guys think I should do? I think you should change the subject when it comes up. Tell her ex's are a thing of the past and you would rather talk about something else. Link to comment
iluvtorace4786 Posted October 23, 2006 Author Share Posted October 23, 2006 So do you guys think that it is worth pursuing? Or should I move on? Link to comment
eXe333 Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 Tell her stop talking about ex, lets think about the future. Talk about us. Thanks Link to comment
Firelord96 Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 well, if shes got her mind on her ex and shes tells you she probably sees you as a close friend. just give her advice and she'll feel better. I dont know about you but im the kinda guy taht thinks if the girl dont like me i at least want her to be happy cuzz then im happy Link to comment
Tigris Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 Ask her why she's always talking about her ex's? Link to comment
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